Shayne Topp

You need to tell no lies.

It simply is none of their business.

I just like, I, that's also just very easy, like convenient.

It's like, that's awesome in a world where nobody speaks to you and ever asks you questions.

Like, I'm just like, it's this thing of like, yes, that is fair and just.

Yeah.

and the world is not that, so.

lean into it, make it terrifying.

Lastly, someone said, people will always talk.

The sad loss of your friend could be an important reminder not to spend any of whatever time you have left on others' opinions.

Take care of yourself.

Be gentle with your grief.

And feel proud and fortunate that your friendship and presence in another wonderful human's life meant that in her final moments, she chose to honor everything you and your relationship meant to her and to celebrate both with a gift of life-changing generosity.

While I obviously don't know either of you, I imagine she would want you to feel peace and deep appreciation for who you are.

That's very sweet.

Yeah.

Pretty good.

That was pretty solid.

No, I mean, I definitely think OP should... I hope they find solace and peace and resolution in this whole thing.

But I also simultaneously do think there is something to the comments that are advising for some conscientious...