Shayne Topp

Yes.

And then you add on top that she's never actually been in a relationship with someone before.

It's also a tough thing of like, are people allowed to just be really good friends?

Like, are they allowed to become really good friends?

Like, you know, without it being like, oh, well, they're clearly into each other.

And sometimes when you do cross that line.

boundary you're across that line not i guess it is a boundary you rub against someone's boundary when you are trying to push it forward but it's should be i think it should be allowed to want more from a relationship but it also can be allowed to sit in a relationship you don't have to have more or want more yeah um but i think she loves her yeah

All of this to say, yeah.

If I had to place a bet, sure, but it's high stakes.

She's at a high stakes table, so placing a bet is really scary.

And, yeah.

But also, I would say to OP, like, she's putting a lot of pressure on herself.

It's like, if your neighbor is gay, and she's also into you, like, it's also on her to express something.

That's true.

You too.

She's in the same exact position as you are potentially.

Mm-hmm.

Okay, so if you're in OP's position, how would you go about broaching this?

I am really bad at these types of things, like historically.

Now, you add a layer that I can't relate to of being gay, right?