Shelby

And it was pretty exciting, this one.

We all kind of knew the history of stuff and they were really into spirits and stories like that.

So we were just talking about it for a while, but the show happened.

We went on with our evening and

After we play, I am sitting at the bar and I'm talking to the bartender that has worked there for a really long time and just kind of,

without trying to alarm anybody or just, I wanted to make sure that I really saw it without giving too much away at first.

So when I approached the bartender and asked them if the place was haunted in any way, if they knew of any spirit encounters, the woman I was speaking to got really excited and she asked me, did you see the man or did you see the woman?

And I was like, oh my God, no way.

And so I said, I saw a man.

She asked me to describe him, but I was like, I kind of want you to describe him.

I don't want to give it away.

I really want to make sure that I saw this.

And she was like, when people see him, he is...

an older man he's wearing a three-piece suit that's kind of like dark gray or brown and he only visits i think she kind of said it in a cheeky way which i felt very nice but she was like he only visits um people he likes and he usually only visits women so i i was very excited about you know like i got chosen almost and she said his name was nico

And I guess other people have had experiences with this ghost.

So I felt like it was such a cool kind of honor, but it was very psychedelic to have her tell me exactly what he looked like because it really did confirm for me what I saw, you know?

I mean, living with this now, there has to be some humor around it.

I can accept that it happened, but I don't want it to become something where I know it's always going to continue or it has to mean something negative.

I kind of am trying to... I find it...

You know, I'm trying to make peace with it in a way where it's exciting.