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Shelise Ann Sola

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

And so if you just put on yoga pants, it's like, well, I'm about to go to the gym.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

And so you don't ever wear them because you're just in workout clothes all day.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

So there was something that came out where the higher council was telling the bishops, hey, guys, if they're not wearing their garments and they're doing the yoga pants, then you can't give them a temple recommend.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

which is a really big deal in Mormonism, because if you can't go to the temple, that means you're not going to be able to go to the highest level of heaven if you're not consistently going and doing the endowments for the dead and all of that.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

So, yeah, it's a harsh punishment when you can't go to the temple.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

Wow.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

I never made it because I wasn't worthy enough.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

So I was in until I was like 21.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

I left when I was 21.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

And I didn't go because there's a couple ways you can get your garments.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

The first way is if you go on a mission.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

So they lowered the age to where you can go, I think, when you're 19 as a girl before it was 21 because they wanted you to get married instead of going on missions.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

Now you can go when you're younger.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

And if you go on a mission, then you go to the temple, take out your endowments, and get your garments.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

The other way is if you get married.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

So I didn't go on a mission and I didn't get married.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

So I never went to the temple.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

Some women, if they don't do either of those and they're later in age, like in their 30s, they can ask for special permission to go in solo and get your endowments out.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

So I just didn't make it to those milestones.

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Shelise Ann Sola: What Cult Survivors Know That Outsiders Don’t | DSH #1700

And I'm glad I did it because I would have hated it.