Shelly Lefkoe

And if you come up with one other possible meaning, well, it could mean that, and it could mean I'm going to get a bigger client, and it could mean they're going to change their minds.

But the fact that they just said that has no meaning.

We don't know anything for sure because it happened.

And for entrepreneurs, I couldn't get off without giving you that.

It is the best tool in the world because as we talked about, sometimes, you know, as Alex said, being an entrepreneur is not easy.

You know, you're going to have tough decisions and you're going to make mistakes and shit's going to happen.

And instead of reacting...

The way to become responsive is to stop and say, what happened?

What meaning did I give it?

What else could it mean?

And then get the event has no meaning.

We don't know anything for sure because anything happens, I don't care what it is.

Right?

And I used that when my husband died.

Grieving is healthy.

Not wanting to get out of bed is not.

What happened?

My husband died.

What meaning am I giving it that's having me not want to get out of bed?

I'm going to starve to death.