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Simone Stolzoff

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1847 total appearances

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The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

And I think increasingly the leaders and the people I look up to the most are the people that

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

understand what they know, understand what bets they're making, and understand what they don't know, and are able to communicate all three of those things clearly to their employees.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

I think one of the best things that employees can do, particularly early career employees, is...

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

test things through hypotheses and prototypes, which is to say that as opposed to going to your boss and saying, hey, like, what do you think I should do about this side of the other thing?

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

Be like, hey, here is my example of what cold email I might send to that prudential business lead that we're looking for.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

Or, hey, I've really been thinking about how we might be able to change this policy in the company.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

And I wrote up a V1 of what this looks like.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

It's much easier to give your boss something to react to and not feel so attached to it as an employee saying this is my best guess or this is my hypothesis.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

And really treat it like you are a scientist, having a hypothesis, running a test, seeing how that test goes and then being able to adapt over time.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

It comes back to this idea that we have a natural tendency to look at uncertainty as a threat, but we can see that potential that comes from uncertainty.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

And curiosity is really the thing that I think unlocks that.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

If we have something happen to us, we can be more like the farmer and say, maybe yes, maybe no.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

Research shows that we have this natural tendency to get into a fight, flight, or freeze response when we are in an uncertain situation.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

And that's why so often we reach for the safe bet, which might not necessarily be the right bet or the optimal bet.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

But when we're able to look at that uncertainty with curiosity, when we're able to ground ourselves and take a step back, we're literally able to see possibilities that we can't see when we're in that narrow fight, flight, or freeze response mode.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

The researchers call it approach mode.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

When we're able to approach uncertainty with a sense of wonder or curiosity, it allows us to see it as the birthplace of possibility and not just the source of our potential doom.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

One of them is inspiration, particularly through art.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

I love listening to new music, watching movies, and particularly with an eye towards originality.

The Liz Moody Podcast
Should You Move? Have Kids? Change Careers? Science-Backed Frameworks For Every Hard Decision

I love people that do things unlike anyone has ever done them before.