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Simone Stolzoff

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1847 total appearances

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The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

I mean, there's different types of OCD and it shows up in different ways.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

For one person, it might be certainty they're seeking about whether the door is locked or whether the stove is off.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

And two things actually changed my mind about how I thought about OCD through the research.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

One is it's much more of a spectrum.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

It's not this sort of like binary thing.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

There's people that have varying degrees of it.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

And the second is it's not certainty per se that people with OCD are seeking.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

It is the lack of anxiety that they get from that brief moment after they check the lock to make sure the door is locked, where they feel safe and secure.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

So an analogy is someone that is addicted to heroin.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

It's not necessarily the heroin itself that they're seeking.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

It is the high that comes from the heroin.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

And for people with OCD, often the certainty is like the heroin.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

And what they're seeking is that brief moment of relief, a brief moment of, oh, okay, the door is locked.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

That comes from having that sense of certainty.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

But that certainty-seeking behavior becomes like an addiction.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

And before you know it, you're locking yourself in your apartment for days trying to figure out the perfect MP3 player to buy.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

This guy went from having a very successful career to being out in the world to agonizing for hours about whether he should take the 137 or the 205 train back home to see his family for Thanksgiving.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

It's that assumption that if we just think hard enough, that if we just gather more information, we'll know for sure the perfect way to live our lives.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

When in actuality, there's a level of uncertainty and chance that's inherent in any decision about the future.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1326: Simone Stolzoff | How to Make the Most of Uncertainty

Yeah, so there's this famous study where researchers had participants either have a 50% chance of receiving a painful electric shock or a 100% chance of receiving this painful electric shock.