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Simone Stolzoff

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1847 total appearances

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How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And so I think we don't need a boardroom to necessarily do this in your own life.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

If you're overwhelmed by the process of, you know, writing a novel or applying to jobs or whatever, if you're able to just focus on that next right action with the great writer Anne Lamott called going bird by bird, that will allow you to actually build some momentum and take this sort of amorphous uncertainty that you might be feeling and make it a little bit more applied.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Give yourself some control back over the universe.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

I love that.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

So you have your anchors on one side and you have your reminder to focus on the next right action on the other side.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

I think the idea with focusing on the next right action is particularly true with these big sort of uncertainties in our life, these existential uncertainties.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And just quickly to round out the sort of ambient uncertainty category, the last thing that I'll say is to choose curiosity over fear.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

So often when we think about uncertainty, we see it as this threat.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

We see it as that rustling in the bushes.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And we think that it's necessarily going to be something bad.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

But one thing that I like to think about is that uncertainty is also the birthplace of possibility.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

So no groundbreaking piece of art or inspiring company or scientific breakthrough.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

has come without someone's willingness to get to a place of uncertainty and to persist.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

I like to think of the metaphor of someone on a lake that's shrouded in heavy fog.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

You might not be able to see very far in front of you or know exactly where you'll end up, but if you keep rowing, then you'll eventually reach land.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And so those are the three I'd say.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Find your anchors, focus on the next right action, and then choose curiosity over fear.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Yeah.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

So we're talking broadly about how do you build tolerance for uncertainty?

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

How does uncertainty go from this thing that is incredibly uncomfortable to something that you can collaborate, that you can manage in your day-to-day basis?