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Simone Stolzoff

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1847 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

To that, I say, go out and try to do it.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

At IDEO, this place that I used to work, we used to say, never come to a meeting without a prototype.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Being able to prototype your career will be the quickest way to tell you whether or not it is actually something that is desirable to you.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

The other thing it'll do is give you a sense of agency.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Part of the reason why it's so hard to be in the job market right now is because all of these applicants are sending out their resumes and cover letters into the void and waiting for a hiring manager to take mercy on their souls.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

It feels like they don't have very much control.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And the way that you can take back control is by trying to build something on your own terms.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

It might not sound very optimistic at this point, but if you are curious about, say, building your own business or becoming an advertising art director or trying out your hand at coding, the best way to show your work is to actually do that work.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And that skill of being able to learn through building is going to be one of the most important skills as we go from a more sort of laddered version of what a career looks like into this more sort of meandering path age, this pathless path that we're all entering today.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

So build to learn and don't wait for anyone else to give you permission to start creating the work that you want to be creating.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Yeah, so the first book is about how work has come to be so central to our identities.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And I talked to many different workers from Michelin star chefs to Wall Street bankers to software engineers at Google about how to think about their jobs.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

And the main argument of the book is about the value of diversifying your identity.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Rather than putting all of your eggs in one basket, if you're able to diversify the sources of identity, meaning, purpose in your life, then it is a much more sustainable way to think about work's role.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

I think it's also great advice for how to deal with uncertainty.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

If all of your identity eggs are in your basket of being, say, someone who works at Google, and that job is taken away from you, maybe by no fault of your own, then it can drive you towards an existential crisis.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

But if you have been able to diversify, to say, okay, I'm going to, you know,

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

Invest in my relationships over here.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

I have these hobbies that really bring a lot of meaning to me.

How to Be a Better Human
How to handle uncertainty (w/ Simone Stolzoff)

I have work that is a source of meaning, but it's not the sole source of meaning.