Sinead Cuddihy

And even before they find out, they're waiting on those test results.

You know, she makes a trip over to the family, have a holiday home in Tobago and they make a trip there as a family.

And she's inviting this woman over.

And this woman is actually based in Italy.

So she, you know, and like, obviously, we know that happened, you know, over the years, people were adopted in other countries.

There was a case years ago of a set of twins who were adopted and one was adopted into the States and one was adopted into Italy.

And it was only discovered when, you know, the Italian girl had a YouTube channel and the American girl's friend saw it.

So, you know, there are all these stories and like, so they don't even have that language in common.

They don't have a culture in common.

And, you know, so yeah, it's really interesting how they play that out.

I don't think it was as cut and dry as that.

I think there was a lot of obstacles in their marriage.

You know, I think...

his career was more important than her career like they both had a similar career path but because when she had children she had to take a step back and even her own family you know when she visited them or talked to them they were like what's the issue like he's making enough money you don't need to work but she was like no I want to work.

And there was also, you know, her children were growing up in England.

She had grown up in the Caribbean.

She had had a certain lifestyle, a certain schooling, certain discipline.

Her husband wasn't very supportive of that.

She had to try and force her husband into allowing them to go to private school because that's what she felt was best in England.

you know, a time and a culture where she felt that, you know, the parenting skills were very different to what she would have had.