Sonya Renee Taylor

And it can also be the like, I need to be the strong one for my partner.

But being the strong one for your partner then denies the twin who is the soft one, right?

Then you are constantly this rock

And then the other part of you that doesn't get to get all of its space, which is the tender you, which is the part of you that is deeply sensitive, doesn't get to have as much.

And so let's talk about that's your rising sign.

Cancer is ruled by the moon.

It is the feeling of our deep sensitivities.

It is the feeling of our maternal instinct.

Cancer is often the energy of the mother.

It is the energy of family and tribe and closeness.

So here's what happens.

Your Capricorn moon is like, yes, be the strong one.

Your Cancer rising, it wants to do the caretaking.

But if the story that the Gemini mind says is the only way to caretake is to be the strong one, then the other part of you gets left behind.

And so this Cancer rising says, can you?

Be your vulnerable, sensitive self first for you.

It's you.

Every time there's a cancer in the first house, it is, can I mother myself?

Can I be the most nurturing, loving, sweet, tender, kind self to myself?

A Capricorn moon is another one of those placements that's really internally harsh.