Sophia

Hi, Mel.

My name is Sophia.

I recently just turned 21.

I'm a college student in Boston.

And I'm calling in for relationship and dating advice because I am just so down atrocious.

I've spent the past four years of college just being in situationships, which worked okay for me because I wasn't looking for anything serious.

But now I'm actually deciding that I feel like

I need to settle down.

It's been kind of toxic for me.

And I realized that like with men, I'm obsessed with the chase, but then when they actually come forward with something serious, I'm suddenly disinterested.

So yeah, I just need kind of help with how to show up as my most authentic self because I feel like I'm playing this game of like cat and mouse with these guys in Boston and I don't want to do that anymore.

No, I like the set up.

I would just get this set up before we do the question.

For me, it's a mix of emotions.

Obviously, I'm quite frustrated.

I do see a bit of light at the end of the tunnel in this decision.

I understand that it will probably have a positive impact in the future.

It will definitely adapt the way our brains think.

So yes, I'm a little bit annoyed, but we'll get over it.

There are much worse things in life than being locked out of Snapchat.