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Stephanie Allynne

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
177 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

Just people being, but you're not gay. Just a vibe of like, it's going to run its course. And it wasn't being received in a way of like, oh, you're in love. Nobody was discouraging. It was, I could just sense that sort of, A vibe.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

Just people being, but you're not gay. Just a vibe of like, it's going to run its course. And it wasn't being received in a way of like, oh, you're in love. Nobody was discouraging. It was, I could just sense that sort of, A vibe.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

I really feel that way though. And I kind of blows my mind because when we got together, we were so in love and just have always been in love. That was the thing. Yes. I'm in love with Tig and Tig's a woman, but it's, and I think I went more in the direction of, oh my God, like labels are so dumb and I, you can fall in love with anyone.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

I really feel that way though. And I kind of blows my mind because when we got together, we were so in love and just have always been in love. That was the thing. Yes. I'm in love with Tig and Tig's a woman, but it's, and I think I went more in the direction of, oh my God, like labels are so dumb and I, you can fall in love with anyone.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

I really feel that way though. And I kind of blows my mind because when we got together, we were so in love and just have always been in love. That was the thing. Yes. I'm in love with Tig and Tig's a woman, but it's, and I think I went more in the direction of, oh my God, like labels are so dumb and I, you can fall in love with anyone.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

It took time and sort of my own allowing myself to process of like, oh, I actually don't... I'm not attracted to men. And I don't think I could ever be in love with a man. And oh, that means I actually am gay and I missed this whole part of myself, which blows my mind. And then I had to go... So what am I attracted to? What is my sexuality? And what is my sexuality completely separate from tick?

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

It took time and sort of my own allowing myself to process of like, oh, I actually don't... I'm not attracted to men. And I don't think I could ever be in love with a man. And oh, that means I actually am gay and I missed this whole part of myself, which blows my mind. And then I had to go... So what am I attracted to? What is my sexuality? And what is my sexuality completely separate from tick?

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

It took time and sort of my own allowing myself to process of like, oh, I actually don't... I'm not attracted to men. And I don't think I could ever be in love with a man. And oh, that means I actually am gay and I missed this whole part of myself, which blows my mind. And then I had to go... So what am I attracted to? What is my sexuality? And what is my sexuality completely separate from tick?

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

You know, and that when you're married with kids to go through that, I felt like it was very hard because I, I, it had nothing to do with our relationship. It's like, of course, this is still strong. And of course I'm still in love, but I need to figure this piece out. Because I want to know it about myself. I want to understand it.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

You know, and that when you're married with kids to go through that, I felt like it was very hard because I, I, it had nothing to do with our relationship. It's like, of course, this is still strong. And of course I'm still in love, but I need to figure this piece out. Because I want to know it about myself. I want to understand it.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

You know, and that when you're married with kids to go through that, I felt like it was very hard because I, I, it had nothing to do with our relationship. It's like, of course, this is still strong. And of course I'm still in love, but I need to figure this piece out. Because I want to know it about myself. I want to understand it.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And I think what was fascinating about kind of that discovery at the time in which it was, was like, It almost was harder because we were so in love and because I was so in love. It's like, well, I don't want to do anything that would weaken that intensity of that love by me exploring or thinking about the side of myself.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And I think what was fascinating about kind of that discovery at the time in which it was, was like, It almost was harder because we were so in love and because I was so in love. It's like, well, I don't want to do anything that would weaken that intensity of that love by me exploring or thinking about the side of myself.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And I think what was fascinating about kind of that discovery at the time in which it was, was like, It almost was harder because we were so in love and because I was so in love. It's like, well, I don't want to do anything that would weaken that intensity of that love by me exploring or thinking about the side of myself.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And what ended up happening when we worked through that was just how much our love got stronger. And being able to kind of go, oh, this is how I feel. This is who I am. Now you know that. Now we've talked about it. It changed so much. And I think in a weird way, not knowing I was gay, I had sort of heteronormative ways that just were the way I saw things.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And what ended up happening when we worked through that was just how much our love got stronger. And being able to kind of go, oh, this is how I feel. This is who I am. Now you know that. Now we've talked about it. It changed so much. And I think in a weird way, not knowing I was gay, I had sort of heteronormative ways that just were the way I saw things.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And what ended up happening when we worked through that was just how much our love got stronger. And being able to kind of go, oh, this is how I feel. This is who I am. Now you know that. Now we've talked about it. It changed so much. And I think in a weird way, not knowing I was gay, I had sort of heteronormative ways that just were the way I saw things.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And then in this relationship, even though I'm now in a gay relationship, I was still going about things in a heteronormative way.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And then in this relationship, even though I'm now in a gay relationship, I was still going about things in a heteronormative way.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And then in this relationship, even though I'm now in a gay relationship, I was still going about things in a heteronormative way.