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Stephanie Allynne

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
177 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

I love it. I feel like we're both in a place of like, oh, this is what we value. This is what we like. I mean, not necessarily. I don't think we go about it the same way, but just where you're going, this is really how I feel. This is really how I see it. And I don't want my life to not be that.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And so if I keep nodding along or keeping it in or just going, I guess that's how it goes, then your life is that.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And so if I keep nodding along or keeping it in or just going, I guess that's how it goes, then your life is that.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And so if I keep nodding along or keeping it in or just going, I guess that's how it goes, then your life is that.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And it is nice when men and women are both like, yeah, that's cool. And you know what? I actually liked that because I do think it's that thing with women where you if a woman you tell a woman to do something, she just says no. Mm hmm. It's like, wow, she's difficult. Whoa. She's crazy. What a bitch. And you see a guy go, no, I'm not doing that. And they're like, he's so smart. Oh my God.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And it is nice when men and women are both like, yeah, that's cool. And you know what? I actually liked that because I do think it's that thing with women where you if a woman you tell a woman to do something, she just says no. Mm hmm. It's like, wow, she's difficult. Whoa. She's crazy. What a bitch. And you see a guy go, no, I'm not doing that. And they're like, he's so smart. Oh my God.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

And it is nice when men and women are both like, yeah, that's cool. And you know what? I actually liked that because I do think it's that thing with women where you if a woman you tell a woman to do something, she just says no. Mm hmm. It's like, wow, she's difficult. Whoa. She's crazy. What a bitch. And you see a guy go, no, I'm not doing that. And they're like, he's so smart. Oh my God.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

He's so strong. I love that guy. And like, I feel like I've noticed with women now, even like other actors or I'm like, I love that. You're just like, no, it's the best.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

He's so strong. I love that guy. And like, I feel like I've noticed with women now, even like other actors or I'm like, I love that. You're just like, no, it's the best.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

He's so strong. I love that guy. And like, I feel like I've noticed with women now, even like other actors or I'm like, I love that. You're just like, no, it's the best.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

Well, I know mine is totally linked to that. I like coming into my sexuality because a friend of mine who is married to a man who identifies as queer. And I'm like, so what does that mean? Queer? Cause queer, I never quite, I'm like, am I queer? Can I say I'm like, are we all queer? And she was like, queer is just other queer.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

Well, I know mine is totally linked to that. I like coming into my sexuality because a friend of mine who is married to a man who identifies as queer. And I'm like, so what does that mean? Queer? Cause queer, I never quite, I'm like, am I queer? Can I say I'm like, are we all queer? And she was like, queer is just other queer.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

Well, I know mine is totally linked to that. I like coming into my sexuality because a friend of mine who is married to a man who identifies as queer. And I'm like, so what does that mean? Queer? Cause queer, I never quite, I'm like, am I queer? Can I say I'm like, are we all queer? And she was like, queer is just other queer.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

So queer is anything other than the heteronormative patriarchal paradigm. And so if she's like, I want to be other in my writing, I want to be other in my parenting. I want to be other in my relationship. I, whatever it is, I don't want that. I want other. And I feel like I'm like, ah, That's what I want. I don't want the way this goes. I don't want the, like, we're falling into roles.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

So queer is anything other than the heteronormative patriarchal paradigm. And so if she's like, I want to be other in my writing, I want to be other in my parenting. I want to be other in my relationship. I, whatever it is, I don't want that. I want other. And I feel like I'm like, ah, That's what I want. I don't want the way this goes. I don't want the, like, we're falling into roles.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

So queer is anything other than the heteronormative patriarchal paradigm. And so if she's like, I want to be other in my writing, I want to be other in my parenting. I want to be other in my relationship. I, whatever it is, I don't want that. I want other. And I feel like I'm like, ah, That's what I want. I don't want the way this goes. I don't want the, like, we're falling into roles.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

We're playing this out. I want to know in every moment what I'm actually feeling, what I actually think. And then that is my reality.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

We're playing this out. I want to know in every moment what I'm actually feeling, what I actually think. And then that is my reality.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

We're playing this out. I want to know in every moment what I'm actually feeling, what I actually think. And then that is my reality.

We Can Do Hard Things
Find Your Towanda with Tig Notaro & Stephanie Allynne (Best Of)

Yeah. You know, I don't know. And it's sort of like that feeling too. I mean, especially in the arts or entertainment, you're doing the thing you love. Like you're the person that has got to do the thing they love. And so isn't that amazing? And isn't it amazing that we're all here doing this really fun thing with each other? Trying to get everybody on that page is so challenging.