Stephanie Soo

And I don't think that's a reason to doubt someone, especially when privacy is a huge concern.

But I will say that one thing we thought was interesting is like, Mary is very open with anything that has to do with her, which she highly values everyone's privacy.

her foster children, her friends, her family members.

Even if we're in her house and we're walking by and she'll see something and she'll be like, oh, look at that bookshelf.

Oh, wait, no, please don't put that in there.

I don't want people to see their name.

She's just very protective of people's privacy and the people that she cares about.

so i think that was a moment it clicked for us because i could see why maybe some redditors i mean i don't see why redditors are mean about it but i could see why some people are saying oh it just feels a little vague it just doesn't feel tangible but i think it's the fact that mary is so respectful of other people's privacy i think that was a huge thing and a person she was like that her husband is also like he does like 50 push-ups a day it's crazy me and him had a competition and i lost

Yeah.

By the way, Jerry is 76 years old.

And in Mary's book, she writes, I have a great marriage.

Although my husband sometimes wonders about my many excuses to buy round oak tables.

We have not one, not two, but three of them.

And one of the most interesting things is, Mary also writes in her book, the fact that I do not have continuous memories of my childhood abuse made it impossible for me to bring any of my perpetrators to justice.

I began memories at the age of 37.

You know, but she does have boxes of journals.

that she's kept for decades and she's gonna pass this on to someone who has also like they connected on a very deep level and it's just the way that she keeps these catalogs again there's no way that she just like sat in a hypnotherapist office and then walked out and was like you know what you're right everything is so meticulously documented i mean there's so much she even has letters from her parents

she shared some with us, which I thought these letters were so odd.

And I'm sure every parent acts differently.

But a few things that we noted is the whole RM team, everyone kind of has a different level of attachment and relationship with their parents.