Stephanie Wood

But what else was going on?

It's up there with the kind of fireman fantasy, the farmer.

And I guess those feelings can kind of overlap, can't they?

Given that you'd only met a few times, were you nervous at all about going away on a weekend with him?

So after things went so well on that first weekend, what were the next few weeks and months like?

Did you ever go and visit him there?

Did he introduce you to his kids?

Was there a kind of pattern to the timing of the cancellation?

Like, would you get much notice?

What lists were you composing?

So was that kind of a carrot for you, that imagined future with him?

Is that part of what kept you there, do you think?

What did your brother tell you about meeting that?

Did he think there was anything weird about Joe being there with someone else?

You were invited to a wedding in Townsville in 2015.

Did Joe agree to go with you?

What sort of details could you see on those images that you recognised?

Was there any record of that night that he'd gone to the restaurant where your brother worked?

Stephanie, this is just, it must have been the most hideous series of discoveries.

How on earth were you making sense of it?