Stephanie

okay yes so i show it to him and he goes hmm well that's weird and he sits on it for like a couple seconds and he's like actually that's really weird and i don't think i like that and i didn't like it either it made me feel weird which is why i showed it to him so then after that i

screenshot it and I sent it to two of the girls in the group that I was close with.

And I was just like, Hey, I got this message response and I feel like it's weird.

Am I overthinking it?

Trying to get other people's opinions.

And they agreed.

They're like, no, 100%.

That's a weird thing.

Um, not, it was, it was within like the first 10 minutes we discussed it.

Yes.

I was, I, I'm such a chronic overshare.

So yes, I did.

And I, I seek validation and that's kind of why I did it.

Yes.

So I tell the girls, again, they agree.

And it goes, we dead the issue.

My husband and I talk about it and we decide, you know, it's weird, but like he's never done anything like this.

So, and we just, we're not comfortable with confrontation in that way.

So we decided we're just going to brush it off and we are going to try to move on from it.

And as far as I know, the girls, they didn't say anything at all.