Stephanie

But this past summer in the end of July, we did

like a big birthday party, beer Olympics with all of our friends for my birthday and one of the other boys birthdays.

And I'm with the friend and one of our, one of my girlfriends and he makes this comment and it just made me feel uncomfortable.

yes it was just weird so he said i really love that lipstick color on you and it just threw me because it was just a it felt like a weird thing to say i don't it just threw me so i i told him about it i was just okay your husband yes i told my husband about it i just like he made this comment um about my lipstick like i it was like it just made me feel weird the way like it came out

And he was like, OK, again, like weird, whatever.

And I thought after I just told him we're good, whatever.

So then my sister comes up to me during the party and she says, oh, your husband came up asking me about some lipstick comment.

And that was a red flag for me because my husband doesn't like to talk to people about things.

So in my head, I'm like, oh, no, he must be more upset than I thought about this comment.

And then after I told my husband, he goes up to my sister and tells my sister about it.

Yes, my husband tells my sister about it.

Well, he was my sister and the rest of our team, because we had teams with colors.

And the two other people that were in our team actually aren't in our friend group.

They're separate friends of me and my sister.

It was my sister, our girlfriend, and then our girlfriend's husband.

And he said, how would you feel if someone said this to your wife and then repeated the comment that I love that lipstick color on you?

And he was like, oh, I think that would be kind of weird.

He just felt off about it.

So he brought it to their attention.

So once I found out that he told my sister about it, my mind starts going.