Stephen Dubner

Right.

That's smart.

I look for all the ways in which I'm inferior when I do that instead of have in common.

Maybe my method is bad.

Yours is good and yours is good.

Looking for things in common so that you can have an actual conversation makes perfect sense.

I don't know why.

I'll be honest with you.

I don't participate very much in the online world.

I use digital stuff all the time.

But if we think of the online world as kind of like a second conversation that's happening for many people, that's not a conversation I really get involved with.

I'll be honest with you.

And therefore...

I'm aware of it because I have people who are in that conversation, but I'm not really in it.

And so this sounds bad, but one of the many things I don't like about living deep in that online world is that there are these compulsions that don't really seem to jibe with actual human nature.

There are expectations that if you don't think or say or feel a certain thing about it could be anything, then you're going to be either outgrouped or thought less of.

And I think that that's just never the way that humans have thrived.

When I look at

human history and I'm not a great historian, but I love history.

I love reading it.