Steven Bartlett

Specifically what she said.

And she was kind of against the use of them.

I've always been down.

I think it adds novelty and it's exciting and it just adds something new.

But she felt like it was almost like giving up.

Are you going to become reliant on it, though?

Because it doesn't make it easier to get off with a sex toy.

Are there certain positions that are going to increase the probability that my partner has an orgasm?

I used to think that a woman orgasming was when, this was when I was younger, was when she squirted.

So that's what I thought it was.

I thought an orgasm was squirting.

So it's not pee.

There's three theories that emerged in my research about why women squirt from an evolutionary perspective.

The first was that, and these are just theories, they're not proven, of course.

The first is that squirting contains PSA and zinc, which are naturally antibacterial.

And ejaculating these fluids during or after sex may have evolved to flush the urethra and prevent UTIs.

The second theory was in ancient ancestors, the hormonal surge during orgasm and ejaculation actually triggered the release of an egg.

Humans evolved to ovulate on a cycle now, but we kept the plumbing and the neurohormonal reflex.

It's a happy accident, a biological vestige that no longer serves its original reproductive purpose, but remains because it isn't harmful for survival.

And the last one kind of matches what you just said there, which is the mate selection theory.