Sydney Sumner

The founder of Missing in America Network is to help find missing people and help families find missing people.

Rhonda, thank you for being with us.

Does nobody but me have Find My iPhone?

Because you just hit that and it helps you find your iPhone.

As a matter of fact, we've had cases just recently where iPhones and people were found by just doing the Find My iPhone app.

Rhonda DeCare joining us, Missing in American Network.

You're projecting, you're projecting how you see the world onto this case.

You said, which is dangerous, but you can't help it.

I do it too.

You said, if I woke up and my husband wasn't there, I would start calling him.

Now, she had a weekly appointment with an acupuncturist and he says he assumed she went there and she did have an appointment, which she never made.

But I'm the same way.

For instance, if I walk in and one of my twins is not in their room or in the kitchen or

I immediately call them.

I try to find them.

I try to find them first before I call them.

But that's me projecting how I would react.

And to Dr. Janie Lacey, joining us, psychotherapist, CEO of Life Counseling Solutions, author of many books and host of the Resilient Professional podcast on YouTube.

Dr. Janie, thank you for being with us.

I can't help but project what I would have done in that situation onto the facts.