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Tali Sharot

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
195 total appearances

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Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

But then if you take a break and come back to the song, the joy can bounce back.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

And so overall, you can enjoy this positive experience more if you have breaks.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

They did the same thing with massages, and they found people enjoy massage more if there's breaks rather than no interruptions.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

And so that is something that you could really use in many different situations.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

We suggest, for example, take shorter vacations, but more of them rather than one long one.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

and when it comes to the negative things you should do the opposite so if it's things that you really do not enjoy like for example it's household chores or it's admin work we usually like our intuition is oh let's just have a little break here and there but in fact what that same studies show is that if you do the unpleasant task from beginning to end no interruptions

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

you will suffer less because you will habituate to the bad, right?

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

But if you take breaks, let's say you're cleaning your house and you're taking breaks, every time you take a break, you dishabituate from the bad and then when you go back, you suffer more.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

So we say, you know, break up the good, but swallow the bad whole.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

Absolutely.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

It's so unintuitive.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

And they actually show 99% of the people say, no, I don't think I would enjoy it more with breaks.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

So it's one of those results that is hard for us to imagine.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

It's true.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

It's unintuitive.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

When you actually measure people's responses, that's what they found.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

Yeah, there's something to novelty.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

Novelty is something that we definitely respond to.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

And the brain attends to things that are novel and responds to things that are novel.

Something You Should Know
The Power of Noticing What Matters & Mastering Meaningful Conversation-SYSK Choice

And it should do.