Tam (Aunt Hefe / Tamela Anderson)
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It doesn't make any sense.
He's inviting you at night.
Yeah.
It's weird.
Nobody else is there.
And they might say, like, I'm not trying to victim blame you, but some shit is common sense.
Like, when you got there and there was no other people, there was no camera guy, you would be like, all right, like, let me get my phone.
But you were in control of your destiny when you went to the nigga's house at night.
I feel like that is a crazy expectation of a girl to have, to think that's not what he expects.
You could play naive if you want and think, oh, he's trying to get to know me or, oh, he got money, so he's doing this and that.
But where are you going to sleep?
Did he get you your own room?
No, hell no.
So it's like, all right, then you came out here to fuck.
Well, you put yourself in the ho zone already for going out there.
Why can't he come to you?
He's got plane ticket money.
You have your own house here.
He can get a hotel here.
Y'all can go out.