Tamara Holland

She's one of my big influences as a writer, as a stylist in her personal look as well and how she curates fashion.

And she is quite well known, especially in the sort of content space for coining the three word theory.

That's something that a lot of listeners might be across.

But if it's new to you, basically the idea is that you

choose three words that describe your style or how you want your style to feel, right?

And I think we might have shared ours in the past, but I don't know, for me, talking about style as an evolution might have changed since a year ago.

So where are you at now?

Okay.

I think you're very refined, but okay.

Yeah.

Okay, so I've always just thought of it as three words that I align with for my style.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So my words, I would say bohemian, relaxed, but then elevated, which are kind of, sometimes there can be a bit of tension in the two words, but I think that's part of tension is part of fashion.

Isn't that, yeah.

Is how the relaxed and the elevated can work together.

I would never have said bohemian three, four years ago.

I think bohemian came about when we moved to the coast and I kind of leaned more into that, you know, relaxed, but that sort of coastal lifestyle where it's sort of everything's more flowy.

And I don't mean flowy in the sense of like wearing maxi dresses every day.

I just mean like

embracing ease in my style whereas when I worked in the city everything was more structured and tailored I simply do not need blazers anymore unless I'm like dressing up to go out there's just certain pieces that don't function in my wardrobe so I don't like on the point of personal style I really don't think you can separate style and lifestyle I think they are so intertwined and for me style has been has evolved for me along with my lifestyle and continues to do so even