Tamsen Fadal

You can't change his life like that, you know.

Mine is the complete opposite.

I'm not sure what's happening 30 minutes from now.

Let's see, uh, after my divorce, I was single probably six, probably six or seven years, six and a half, let's say six and a half years after my divorce, I was single, like I went out.

So, I mean, single of a serious relationship, I guess.

And then, um, but I didn't start dating.

you know, we really had, we were separated.

So we were separated for a long time.

So it was almost like the divorce was starting.

So we finalized a divorce.

It was probably like six months that I started dating, but really we had been separated for like a year and a half plus at that point.

So I think I knew, I didn't really know I wanted a date, like to go meet somebody.

I just knew I wanted to get out of the house.

I was like early forties, New York City, everyone's doing fun stuff.

Carrie Bradshaw.

Everyone's doing fun stuff.

And I felt like I just wanted to be whole a little bit.

And I was like, every Friday night I was sitting at home on my couch having pizza with my chihuahuas and like, I don't know, learning how to code and shit.

Like I was doing weird things.

That sounds amazing actually.