Thais Gibson

And then pillar number two is that we learn to self-source because now we're filling our cup halfway.

And what's really powerful, as soon as we start self-sourcing, we ingrain that in that first 30 days.

Well, now all of a sudden, there's not this crazy amount of pressure.

And now it's really clear to say, this is what I need.

Exactly.

Yes.

Exactly.

Yeah.

And that's where it's really important.

I love that you asked that because what ends up happening far too often, and this is a really crazy part of this, is because our subconscious mind wants to maintain its comfort zone because it equates familiarity to safety and survival so frequently.

people think that they want somebody to give them their need and that's the solution.

And let's take like a typical example.

Let's say somebody has, they're anxiously attached.

They believe they're not good enough.

So now just by that, they have more negative internal dialogue.

They're criticizing themselves, sort of magnifying their mistakes, minimizing their wins in their own natural set point of their conditioning.

Then they are often not meeting their own need to feel, you know, good enough or validated or reassured.

So now they have what I call like a hole in your bucket.

Like you're going to go and because the subconscious mind will only receive well what's familiar because it equates it to safety, then you go and you say, oh, hey, tell me I'm good enough.

Tell me all these things.