Thais Gibson

Well, now we have the power to communicate better because we're regulated and we know what we need.

And we also can set boundaries better when we don't have core wounds around them.

Because a lot of the reason we actually... For me in my own healing, for example, I knew everything about boundaries.

I read all the boundary books.

I read all the published literature on boundaries.

But in real time, I would struggle.

And it's because for me as a child, when I set boundaries or said no, I would often get punished.

So for me...

boundaries equaled unsafety.

And until I rewired that core wound, then in real time, I would be like, oh, this is when I should set a boundary, but I wouldn't do it because my subconscious would block me thinking I would be unsafe.

So by doing the core wound work first, we get rid of those wounds that would show up and prevent us from setting the boundary.

Like, oh, I'll be abandoned if I set a boundary or unsafe or unloved.

When you do that core wound work first, you have the power to set boundaries much more effectively.

So to your point, exactly all of those pillars are in that exact order for very specific reasons.

Thank you.

Thank you so much.

Yeah.

And I take people through 90-day programs.

So I'm in there with people.

We go through 90 days.