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They can't get out of. Because it just compounds and it builds into this thing that just feels so much bigger than you and you have no control over it. When in reality, you do. You do. And... I've had to be very patient with myself and be able to talk to myself and be like, okay, I know I'm afraid. I know I'm scared. I know I am anxious about this thing, but what is the absolute worst case?

They can't get out of. Because it just compounds and it builds into this thing that just feels so much bigger than you and you have no control over it. When in reality, you do. You do. And... I've had to be very patient with myself and be able to talk to myself and be like, okay, I know I'm afraid. I know I'm scared. I know I am anxious about this thing, but what is the absolute worst case?

What is the worst thing that will happen when I step on this stage? The worst thing is if I get pantsed. Okay. Getting pantsed would suck, but would I be able to laugh about it? Yes, I would. So it's not that bad. Realistically, what would be the worst case if you were public speaking in front of people?

What is the worst thing that will happen when I step on this stage? The worst thing is if I get pantsed. Okay. Getting pantsed would suck, but would I be able to laugh about it? Yes, I would. So it's not that bad. Realistically, what would be the worst case if you were public speaking in front of people?

What is the worst thing that will happen when I step on this stage? The worst thing is if I get pantsed. Okay. Getting pantsed would suck, but would I be able to laugh about it? Yes, I would. So it's not that bad. Realistically, what would be the worst case if you were public speaking in front of people?

That you forget your lines and you have to look down at your paper and remember them or you have to make something up. Is that scary? Of course. Will you be anxious and be afraid? Of course. But at least you know when you kind of say it out loud, when you say the thing that is bugging you out loud, it doesn't really make it that bad. it kind of takes the oomph out of it.

That you forget your lines and you have to look down at your paper and remember them or you have to make something up. Is that scary? Of course. Will you be anxious and be afraid? Of course. But at least you know when you kind of say it out loud, when you say the thing that is bugging you out loud, it doesn't really make it that bad. it kind of takes the oomph out of it.

That you forget your lines and you have to look down at your paper and remember them or you have to make something up. Is that scary? Of course. Will you be anxious and be afraid? Of course. But at least you know when you kind of say it out loud, when you say the thing that is bugging you out loud, it doesn't really make it that bad. it kind of takes the oomph out of it.

When we synthesize and actually verbalize our fear, the thing that really, really just irks us or makes us think that we can't believe in ourselves because something will go wrong, we realize that we're really stressing over things that we have no control over. We don't know.

When we synthesize and actually verbalize our fear, the thing that really, really just irks us or makes us think that we can't believe in ourselves because something will go wrong, we realize that we're really stressing over things that we have no control over. We don't know.

When we synthesize and actually verbalize our fear, the thing that really, really just irks us or makes us think that we can't believe in ourselves because something will go wrong, we realize that we're really stressing over things that we have no control over. We don't know.

If you've prepared as good as you've prepared for something, it comes down to the thing, to the test, to the speech, to the date. That's what it comes down to. You can do all the prep work that you want, but maybe things go wrong. Maybe it doesn't go right. Maybe you were going to close a deal with somebody, you know, your salesman, you want to close a deal and you don't close the deal.

If you've prepared as good as you've prepared for something, it comes down to the thing, to the test, to the speech, to the date. That's what it comes down to. You can do all the prep work that you want, but maybe things go wrong. Maybe it doesn't go right. Maybe you were going to close a deal with somebody, you know, your salesman, you want to close a deal and you don't close the deal.

If you've prepared as good as you've prepared for something, it comes down to the thing, to the test, to the speech, to the date. That's what it comes down to. You can do all the prep work that you want, but maybe things go wrong. Maybe it doesn't go right. Maybe you were going to close a deal with somebody, you know, your salesman, you want to close a deal and you don't close the deal.

Even though you prepped, even though there were signs that things were going to work, some times things don't work out. They just don't. There's nothing, there is nothing you could do about it. It was out of your control. They just don't, they just didn't work out. Right?

Even though you prepped, even though there were signs that things were going to work, some times things don't work out. They just don't. There's nothing, there is nothing you could do about it. It was out of your control. They just don't, they just didn't work out. Right?

Even though you prepped, even though there were signs that things were going to work, some times things don't work out. They just don't. There's nothing, there is nothing you could do about it. It was out of your control. They just don't, they just didn't work out. Right?

But if you live in that kind of reality in your mind where all the time things won't work out, all the time, you know, things will just not flow in your favor and you think that way and you're always like, oh, the worst case will happen. Even if you don't define what the worst case is, it's like you are stressing over things that you have no control over. That you just don't know about.

But if you live in that kind of reality in your mind where all the time things won't work out, all the time, you know, things will just not flow in your favor and you think that way and you're always like, oh, the worst case will happen. Even if you don't define what the worst case is, it's like you are stressing over things that you have no control over. That you just don't know about.

But if you live in that kind of reality in your mind where all the time things won't work out, all the time, you know, things will just not flow in your favor and you think that way and you're always like, oh, the worst case will happen. Even if you don't define what the worst case is, it's like you are stressing over things that you have no control over. That you just don't know about.