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Thomas Curran

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
294 total appearances

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Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Well, that's the thing with being at LSE.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Everyone's exceptional.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And not being able to derive any lasting satisfaction from success is really a kind of signature of the way my students interpret their experience at university.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

They find it difficult to deal with setbacks.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And I think sometimes we misunderstand this as being fragile or young people lacking resilience, but really it's just excessive self-imposed pressures and a deep and profound fear of failure.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

So it became evident to me that myself, my students, and many, many people around me were struggling with something called perfectionism.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

A need and desire to do things perfectly and nothing but perfectly that comes from a sense of lack, a sense of inferiority, a sense of deficiency, a sense that I'm not perfect and in order to gain approval and validation in this world that I'm worth something, that I matter, that I need to be perfect.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

So we found recently that perfectionism is increasing among more recent generations of young people.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

This was a study we did back now in 2016, 2017, essentially looking at college student data of perfectionism.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

So we have about 30 years worth of perfectionism data looking at various indicators of perfectionism.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And we found when we ran the numbers that perfectionism was increasing and increasing really rapidly.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

It's up about 40% since 1989.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And that's concerning because it's associated most strongly with negative mental health outcomes like depression, anxiety, self-harm.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And this hard data is telling us something significant and something that we need to be paying attention to.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Perfectionism is something that I think in modern society is lionized, celebrated.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

We know it carries self-sacrificial patterns of behavior.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

It makes us feel a little bit miserable.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

But nevertheless, we also think that perfectionism is what carries us forward and makes us successful.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

A necessary evil, so to speak.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Something that if we want to get ahead, we might need a bit of perfectionism.