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or any of those things that you don't even really think, oh my God, I got that bill. Exactly. So then that's within a month frame on average, right? So that's step two. Then step three is to write down how much you make on average every month from all of your areas. So maybe you get alimony, maybe you get child support, maybe you have a job, whatever that is, how much are you making monthly?
Then you add up, step four, you add up how much you're spending monthly and subtract it from how much you're making monthly. I call that the tears and tissue step. Cause usually people get there and they're like, can I have a tissue? And should you do this with a friend? Yes. Should we call Linda? Yes. Get yourself a Linda.
Then you add up, step four, you add up how much you're spending monthly and subtract it from how much you're making monthly. I call that the tears and tissue step. Cause usually people get there and they're like, can I have a tissue? And should you do this with a friend? Yes. Should we call Linda? Yes. Get yourself a Linda.
Then you add up, step four, you add up how much you're spending monthly and subtract it from how much you're making monthly. I call that the tears and tissue step. Cause usually people get there and they're like, can I have a tissue? And should you do this with a friend? Yes. Should we call Linda? Yes. Get yourself a Linda.
So, so literally, so I, when I used to do one-on-ones, we would do all that and people would be like, okay. And then I would literally just grab a box of tissues and just put it here. Cause I'm like, it's about the waterworks. They added up. I remember it was a nurse. I'll never forget. I'll call her B. And I came to her house and it was beautiful condo.
So, so literally, so I, when I used to do one-on-ones, we would do all that and people would be like, okay. And then I would literally just grab a box of tissues and just put it here. Cause I'm like, it's about the waterworks. They added up. I remember it was a nurse. I'll never forget. I'll call her B. And I came to her house and it was beautiful condo.
So, so literally, so I, when I used to do one-on-ones, we would do all that and people would be like, okay. And then I would literally just grab a box of tissues and just put it here. Cause I'm like, it's about the waterworks. They added up. I remember it was a nurse. I'll never forget. I'll call her B. And I came to her house and it was beautiful condo.
And so we did that step and she started crying and she was just like, I didn't realize how much over I was spending. And she said, as a matter of fact, I can't even afford the air conditioning that's on Can I turn it off? And I was like, yes. So we sat with the fan on because she just turned on the air conditioner because I was coming over. So I was like, turn off the AC. A fan is fine.
And so we did that step and she started crying and she was just like, I didn't realize how much over I was spending. And she said, as a matter of fact, I can't even afford the air conditioning that's on Can I turn it off? And I was like, yes. So we sat with the fan on because she just turned on the air conditioner because I was coming over. So I was like, turn off the AC. A fan is fine.
And so we did that step and she started crying and she was just like, I didn't realize how much over I was spending. And she said, as a matter of fact, I can't even afford the air conditioning that's on Can I turn it off? And I was like, yes. So we sat with the fan on because she just turned on the air conditioner because I was coming over. So I was like, turn off the AC. A fan is fine.
That tears and tissue step allows you to see what do you need to do now. And so. Let's say you've done that, right?
That tears and tissue step allows you to see what do you need to do now. And so. Let's say you've done that, right?
That tears and tissue step allows you to see what do you need to do now. And so. Let's say you've done that, right?
What is the next step? The next step is I want you to categorize your expenses before you get to slash and dash, you know, because that's what people want to do. I won't eat out. I won't. Yeah, I'm never going to eat again.
What is the next step? The next step is I want you to categorize your expenses before you get to slash and dash, you know, because that's what people want to do. I won't eat out. I won't. Yeah, I'm never going to eat again.
What is the next step? The next step is I want you to categorize your expenses before you get to slash and dash, you know, because that's what people want to do. I won't eat out. I won't. Yeah, I'm never going to eat again.
So I'm like categorize your expenses into three categories. One, I want you to write a B next to all the bills on your list. So bills are if you don't pay it, someone's going to come knocking on your door and say, where's my money? Right. Yeah. So put a B next to all those things.
So I'm like categorize your expenses into three categories. One, I want you to write a B next to all the bills on your list. So bills are if you don't pay it, someone's going to come knocking on your door and say, where's my money? Right. Yeah. So put a B next to all those things.
So I'm like categorize your expenses into three categories. One, I want you to write a B next to all the bills on your list. So bills are if you don't pay it, someone's going to come knocking on your door and say, where's my money? Right. Yeah. So put a B next to all those things.
Yes. Mortgage is a bill. Rent, car note, student loans. So if you don't pay, you're likely to be sued. Think about that. Gotcha.