Tig Notaro

And our son, Finn, leaned in the front seat and said, you're gay.

And they were like, oh, my God, how on earth do our kids not know we're gay?

It was so wild.

And there we are just trying to explain everything in the next three minutes before we drop them off.

Well, they also were like, what is gay?

Which also was so confusing.

It was like, wait a minute.

We're like the mayors of gay town.

Look at me.

And, you know, like, oh, gosh.

And we realized that just because they knew they had two moms and they had seen our wedding pictures, that that doesn't equal gay.

Right.

You have to actually say gay is a boy and a boy, a girl and a girl.

And so we were explaining that before we drop them off.

But we were just like, oh, my God.

It was so confusing.

But the more I've talked about it, there are other parents that have told me that they experience the same thing.

And there's kind of this beautiful thing in that

it's a non-issue, you know, like they didn't know or care.

And, um, and now they really know, but, um, but yeah, it was, it was, it was shocking.