Tika Sumpter

My uncle, my... Black, black, black. Yes. Like, and... I've dated, you know, people that I just get a lot. Like, yeah, you don't see color. I don't see. I see you. But I'm like, I also I'm like, you're just fine. Yeah. And you're smart and you're funny. And to me, it's not this. It's just how do you treat me? Right. Right. Like, how do you love me? Whether it's for a long time or not.

My uncle, my... Black, black, black. Yes. Like, and... I've dated, you know, people that I just get a lot. Like, yeah, you don't see color. I don't see. I see you. But I'm like, I also I'm like, you're just fine. Yeah. And you're smart and you're funny. And to me, it's not this. It's just how do you treat me? Right. Right. Like, how do you love me? Whether it's for a long time or not.

It's like, how do we get along? Yeah. I like talking to you. Right. You know, and I've loved. I've, one day when I'm 89, I will write a book. I will write a book. Okay? Okay.

It's like, how do we get along? Yeah. I like talking to you. Right. You know, and I've loved. I've, one day when I'm 89, I will write a book. I will write a book. Okay? Okay.

Good luck in life. Right.

Good luck in life. Right.

Literally.

Literally.

But no, I just, there's not like a thing where I'm like, I want to date a white man. Yeah.

But no, I just, there's not like a thing where I'm like, I want to date a white man. Yeah.

Just trying it.

Just trying it.

I mean, look. Look at the numbers. I mean, I don't know. I mean, I don't know. Yeah. Whether it's white, whether it's Asian, whether it's Indian, whatever it looks like, you just got to try. As long as they treat you good and as long as they... Finding love is hard. It is hard.

I mean, look. Look at the numbers. I mean, I don't know. I mean, I don't know. Yeah. Whether it's white, whether it's Asian, whether it's Indian, whatever it looks like, you just got to try. As long as they treat you good and as long as they... Finding love is hard. It is hard.

Woo.

Woo.

And that was what I did do as I got into therapy because I thought he was the problem. But then a mirror was held up and it was like, oh, girl, you're not that cute right now. You know what I mean? Like, there's a lot of things I had to deal with, including boundaries for everybody. Yeah. Including what I will accept from family or not. And including making this new family. Yes.

And that was what I did do as I got into therapy because I thought he was the problem. But then a mirror was held up and it was like, oh, girl, you're not that cute right now. You know what I mean? Like, there's a lot of things I had to deal with, including boundaries for everybody. Yeah. Including what I will accept from family or not. And including making this new family. Yes.

You know what I mean? Like. Then when you have a child, that's a whole other thing. But yeah, we grew up very differently. Where his parents, there was no, like, they don't rely on him for anything. You know? That's just not how he grew up. And so understanding, not that my mom relied on me, but I was like, I made it. I got you. I got you.

You know what I mean? Like. Then when you have a child, that's a whole other thing. But yeah, we grew up very differently. Where his parents, there was no, like, they don't rely on him for anything. You know? That's just not how he grew up. And so understanding, not that my mom relied on me, but I was like, I made it. I got you. I got you.