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I think I'm gonna take some medicine so I can kind of like transform into a boy, get surgery.

I think I'm gonna take some medicine so I can kind of like transform into a boy, get surgery.

He said it! He said it!

He said it! He said it!

Life sucks! And then you die.

Life sucks! And then you die.

I thought being in your early 20s was supposed to be fun. I see all these bitches having so much fun. I am miserable. Miserable to my core miserable. What the fuck? This sucks. I'm suing whoever told me that this was supposed to be the most fun time in my life because it is. It is not. Definitely not. Not even close.

I thought being in your early 20s was supposed to be fun. I see all these bitches having so much fun. I am miserable. Miserable to my core miserable. What the fuck? This sucks. I'm suing whoever told me that this was supposed to be the most fun time in my life because it is. It is not. Definitely not. Not even close.

I hate this job. I hate this job. I didn't even apply. The benefits suck, okay? The hours suck. How do I quit? Where do I put my two weeks in?

I hate this job. I hate this job. I didn't even apply. The benefits suck, okay? The hours suck. How do I quit? Where do I put my two weeks in?

I don't want to work. I don't want to work. I don't want to work.

I don't want to work. I don't want to work. I don't want to work.

Jim Smith, you've done a hell of a lousy job.

Jim Smith, you've done a hell of a lousy job.

Not that my content reaches a lot of men because I have an IQ of 130.

Not that my content reaches a lot of men because I have an IQ of 130.

Not that my content reaches a lot of men because I have an IQ of 130, but I want the men in this country to know that half the female population, we're dry. We're probably going to stay dry. I'm dry as a desert, baby. And I don't want it to change. Yeah, we're not going to like you anymore. You understand that? Like, it doesn't matter if you take away abortion.

Not that my content reaches a lot of men because I have an IQ of 130, but I want the men in this country to know that half the female population, we're dry. We're probably going to stay dry. I'm dry as a desert, baby. And I don't want it to change. Yeah, we're not going to like you anymore. You understand that? Like, it doesn't matter if you take away abortion.

Like, we'll want to have your babies even less, right? Even if you take away contraception, like... women are really good at celibacy because you guys are actually a threat to us. So we have a lot less to gain from you. So yeah, 4B all the way. Let's make some money, I guess. That's all we can do now.

Like, we'll want to have your babies even less, right? Even if you take away contraception, like... women are really good at celibacy because you guys are actually a threat to us. So we have a lot less to gain from you. So yeah, 4B all the way. Let's make some money, I guess. That's all we can do now.

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The relationship is going to fail because whether small or big, your partner is not giving attention to the things that you personally care about just for the sole reason that you care about it.

The relationship is going to fail because whether small or big, your partner is not giving attention to the things that you personally care about just for the sole reason that you care about it.

I'm here. I'm here. I know you're scared.

I'm here. I'm here. I know you're scared.

The Bird Test theory is basically a predictor for whether or not your relationship is going to succeed. And it kind of goes like this.

The Bird Test theory is basically a predictor for whether or not your relationship is going to succeed. And it kind of goes like this.

A few weeks ago, I said I don't do my husband's laundry. And a lot of people are saying, whoa, whoa, whoa. Those are small acts of kindness. Why wouldn't you want to do that for your partner? But here's the thing. Small acts of kindness that are mostly domestic labor just add up to work at the end of the day. So here's a list of things that I don't do for my husband.

A few weeks ago, I said I don't do my husband's laundry. And a lot of people are saying, whoa, whoa, whoa. Those are small acts of kindness. Why wouldn't you want to do that for your partner? But here's the thing. Small acts of kindness that are mostly domestic labor just add up to work at the end of the day. So here's a list of things that I don't do for my husband.

You all know I don't do his laundry. He can do that himself. I do my laundry and we do the kid's laundry, but he does his own. I don't cook dinner. He cooks dinner every single night. I do breakfast and lunch for us and our kids. I don't pack him a lunch. If he's hungry, he'll figure out what he's going to eat for lunch the same way that I do.

You all know I don't do his laundry. He can do that himself. I do my laundry and we do the kid's laundry, but he does his own. I don't cook dinner. He cooks dinner every single night. I do breakfast and lunch for us and our kids. I don't pack him a lunch. If he's hungry, he'll figure out what he's going to eat for lunch the same way that I do.

I don't make his doctor's appointments because guess what? He's not making mine. Would it be kind of me to do that? For sure. Is it my job? Absolutely not. I want him to be healthy, but he's a grown ass man and he can book his own appointments, right? There's a lot of things that I don't do for my husband. I don't schedule his haircuts. I don't pack his clothes for vacation. Right.

I don't make his doctor's appointments because guess what? He's not making mine. Would it be kind of me to do that? For sure. Is it my job? Absolutely not. I want him to be healthy, but he's a grown ass man and he can book his own appointments, right? There's a lot of things that I don't do for my husband. I don't schedule his haircuts. I don't pack his clothes for vacation. Right.

let's say that you and your partner are sitting at a coffee shop and you see a bird outside and you mention it to them there's a couple different ways that your partner can respond your partner could be like oh that's a really cool bird and engage with you and take interest in what you just said or your partner can dismiss it all together and be like

let's say that you and your partner are sitting at a coffee shop and you see a bird outside and you mention it to them there's a couple different ways that your partner can respond your partner could be like oh that's a really cool bird and engage with you and take interest in what you just said or your partner can dismiss it all together and be like

I don't do those things. I don't buy him new underwear when it's got holes in it. All of those are things that he's a grown man and he can do himself. Can I do small acts of kindness for him? Of course I can. And I do. I see a vinyl that I think he's going to like because he's creating a vinyl collection. I buy it. I'm at the store and I see something that I think he might enjoy eating. I buy it.

I don't do those things. I don't buy him new underwear when it's got holes in it. All of those are things that he's a grown man and he can do himself. Can I do small acts of kindness for him? Of course I can. And I do. I see a vinyl that I think he's going to like because he's creating a vinyl collection. I buy it. I'm at the store and I see something that I think he might enjoy eating. I buy it.

I find a new non-alcoholic beer that he wants to try out. I buy it, right? Those are small acts of kindness. Doing his laundry, cooking him dinner, making him lunch, booking his doctor's appointments, all those things, that's domestic labor. Those are chores. Those are not acts of kindness. Do I do them occasionally when he's working a lot? Of course.

I find a new non-alcoholic beer that he wants to try out. I buy it, right? Those are small acts of kindness. Doing his laundry, cooking him dinner, making him lunch, booking his doctor's appointments, all those things, that's domestic labor. Those are chores. Those are not acts of kindness. Do I do them occasionally when he's working a lot? Of course.

Do I cook dinner sometimes when he's had a really long day? Of course. But me not doing that does not mean that I don't show him love or kindness. They're different things. It is not my job as a wife, it is not in my job description to do all the domestic labor as small acts of kindness to my partner and receive nothing in return. I agree with this commenter. If it's going both ways, fantastic.

Do I cook dinner sometimes when he's had a really long day? Of course. But me not doing that does not mean that I don't show him love or kindness. They're different things. It is not my job as a wife, it is not in my job description to do all the domestic labor as small acts of kindness to my partner and receive nothing in return. I agree with this commenter. If it's going both ways, fantastic.

But oftentimes domestic labor, especially when you have children, adds up. And so no, I am not my husband's personal secretary or his personal assistant. I am none of those things. I am his partner. I am his equal. And I do not have to do things to cater to him and serve him at all times to be kind and loving for him.

But oftentimes domestic labor, especially when you have children, adds up. And so no, I am not my husband's personal secretary or his personal assistant. I am none of those things. I am his partner. I am his equal. And I do not have to do things to cater to him and serve him at all times to be kind and loving for him.

okay it's a bird what about it basically the Gottman Institute which is this really big psychology institute for relationships calls that a bid and the idea is if your partner takes interest in the mundane little small things that you talk about the relationship is just more likely to succeed because your partner has genuine interest in whatever you say regardless of whether that thing is a small thing or not on the flip side if your partner kind of keeps ignoring your bids that's kind of a sign that

okay it's a bird what about it basically the Gottman Institute which is this really big psychology institute for relationships calls that a bid and the idea is if your partner takes interest in the mundane little small things that you talk about the relationship is just more likely to succeed because your partner has genuine interest in whatever you say regardless of whether that thing is a small thing or not on the flip side if your partner kind of keeps ignoring your bids that's kind of a sign that

He said it! He said it!

Life sucks! And then you die.

I thought being in your early 20s was supposed to be fun. I see all these bitches having so much fun. I am miserable. Miserable to my core miserable. What the fuck? This sucks. I'm suing whoever told me that this was supposed to be the most fun time in my life because it is. It is not. Definitely not. Not even close.

I hate this job. I hate this job. I didn't even apply. The benefits suck, okay? The hours suck. How do I quit? Where do I put my two weeks in?

I don't want to work. I don't want to work. I don't want to work.

Jim Smith, you've done a hell of a lousy job.

Not that my content reaches a lot of men because I have an IQ of 130.

Not that my content reaches a lot of men because I have an IQ of 130, but I want the men in this country to know that half the female population, we're dry. We're probably going to stay dry. I'm dry as a desert, baby. And I don't want it to change. Yeah, we're not going to like you anymore. You understand that? Like, it doesn't matter if you take away abortion.

Like, we'll want to have your babies even less, right? Even if you take away contraception, like... women are really good at celibacy because you guys are actually a threat to us. So we have a lot less to gain from you. So yeah, 4B all the way. Let's make some money, I guess. That's all we can do now.

I think I'm gonna take some medicine so I can kind of like transform into a boy, get surgery.

¶¶

The relationship is going to fail because whether small or big, your partner is not giving attention to the things that you personally care about just for the sole reason that you care about it.

I'm here. I'm here. I know you're scared.

The Bird Test theory is basically a predictor for whether or not your relationship is going to succeed. And it kind of goes like this.

A few weeks ago, I said I don't do my husband's laundry. And a lot of people are saying, whoa, whoa, whoa. Those are small acts of kindness. Why wouldn't you want to do that for your partner? But here's the thing. Small acts of kindness that are mostly domestic labor just add up to work at the end of the day. So here's a list of things that I don't do for my husband.

You all know I don't do his laundry. He can do that himself. I do my laundry and we do the kid's laundry, but he does his own. I don't cook dinner. He cooks dinner every single night. I do breakfast and lunch for us and our kids. I don't pack him a lunch. If he's hungry, he'll figure out what he's going to eat for lunch the same way that I do.

I don't make his doctor's appointments because guess what? He's not making mine. Would it be kind of me to do that? For sure. Is it my job? Absolutely not. I want him to be healthy, but he's a grown ass man and he can book his own appointments, right? There's a lot of things that I don't do for my husband. I don't schedule his haircuts. I don't pack his clothes for vacation. Right.

let's say that you and your partner are sitting at a coffee shop and you see a bird outside and you mention it to them there's a couple different ways that your partner can respond your partner could be like oh that's a really cool bird and engage with you and take interest in what you just said or your partner can dismiss it all together and be like

I don't do those things. I don't buy him new underwear when it's got holes in it. All of those are things that he's a grown man and he can do himself. Can I do small acts of kindness for him? Of course I can. And I do. I see a vinyl that I think he's going to like because he's creating a vinyl collection. I buy it. I'm at the store and I see something that I think he might enjoy eating. I buy it.

I find a new non-alcoholic beer that he wants to try out. I buy it, right? Those are small acts of kindness. Doing his laundry, cooking him dinner, making him lunch, booking his doctor's appointments, all those things, that's domestic labor. Those are chores. Those are not acts of kindness. Do I do them occasionally when he's working a lot? Of course.

Do I cook dinner sometimes when he's had a really long day? Of course. But me not doing that does not mean that I don't show him love or kindness. They're different things. It is not my job as a wife, it is not in my job description to do all the domestic labor as small acts of kindness to my partner and receive nothing in return. I agree with this commenter. If it's going both ways, fantastic.

But oftentimes domestic labor, especially when you have children, adds up. And so no, I am not my husband's personal secretary or his personal assistant. I am none of those things. I am his partner. I am his equal. And I do not have to do things to cater to him and serve him at all times to be kind and loving for him.

okay it's a bird what about it basically the Gottman Institute which is this really big psychology institute for relationships calls that a bid and the idea is if your partner takes interest in the mundane little small things that you talk about the relationship is just more likely to succeed because your partner has genuine interest in whatever you say regardless of whether that thing is a small thing or not on the flip side if your partner kind of keeps ignoring your bids that's kind of a sign that