Tim Grover
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Get it out. Because what I might think you're doubting may be completely different than something that you're doubting. I may see something and you're like, no, that's not it. Well, okay, let's talk about this a little more. Explain to me what's going on here. What created that doubt? What created that doubt? And we know after seven years,
Get it out. Because what I might think you're doubting may be completely different than something that you're doubting. I may see something and you're like, no, that's not it. Well, okay, let's talk about this a little more. Explain to me what's going on here. What created that doubt? What created that doubt? And we know after seven years,
those it had finally gotten to the point where it was just like and no one talked to him because he you know kobe wasn't going to talk to anybody about it you know he's never going to talk to the media about it no they should talk to some individual that's like hey okay listen I understand. I'm as obsessed and as crazy as you are because that's why you hired me. That's why you hired me.
those it had finally gotten to the point where it was just like and no one talked to him because he you know kobe wasn't going to talk to anybody about it you know he's never going to talk to the media about it no they should talk to some individual that's like hey okay listen I understand. I'm as obsessed and as crazy as you are because that's why you hired me. That's why you hired me.
I understand the winning mentality. I understand what's going on in under here. I understand the skeletons. I understand the demons. I get those things. Mine aren't the same as yours, but I have them. We all have them, and very few can admit them. So when you start admitting doubt and you start to be able to talk about it,
I understand the winning mentality. I understand what's going on in under here. I understand the skeletons. I understand the demons. I get those things. Mine aren't the same as yours, but I have them. We all have them, and very few can admit them. So when you start admitting doubt and you start to be able to talk about it,
something that you've tried to bury in your closet that needs to be addressed, but you're trying to hide it. You're trying to bury it. You're trying to put it away. And winning requires you to show up with all of you. It wants to show up the good, the bad, the fearful, the doubt, the anxiety, the ups, the downs. It needs to see all of you. Otherwise, it's never going to acknowledge you.
something that you've tried to bury in your closet that needs to be addressed, but you're trying to hide it. You're trying to bury it. You're trying to put it away. And winning requires you to show up with all of you. It wants to show up the good, the bad, the fearful, the doubt, the anxiety, the ups, the downs. It needs to see all of you. Otherwise, it's never going to acknowledge you.
It's not going to acknowledge you. And you can't win with just one thing. You have to win with all of you.
It's not going to acknowledge you. And you can't win with just one thing. You have to win with all of you.
Obsession.
Obsession.
extremely high threshold for physical and mental pain discomfort and also winning they all had that in common the winning mindset the winning yes what he called it the mama mentality
extremely high threshold for physical and mental pain discomfort and also winning they all had that in common the winning mindset the winning yes what he called it the mama mentality
So I look at it three ways. So you have individuals... that compete. You know a lot of people that compete. We all know how to compete. Everybody knows how to compete. You don't forget how to compete. We just decide not to anymore. But a lot of people compete just to finish. Then there's individuals that win, but they only win one time.
So I look at it three ways. So you have individuals... that compete. You know a lot of people that compete. We all know how to compete. Everybody knows how to compete. You don't forget how to compete. We just decide not to anymore. But a lot of people compete just to finish. Then there's individuals that win, but they only win one time.
That is an art and a science probably combined. Yes. Because here's how it goes. You can't come back the same. Once you win, you can't come back? You cannot come back the same. You have to come back different. You have to come back better. This is what I always say. Listen, winning requires you to be different, and difference scares people. Absolutely. It scares people. So after each championship,
That is an art and a science probably combined. Yes. Because here's how it goes. You can't come back the same. Once you win, you can't come back? You cannot come back the same. You have to come back different. You have to come back better. This is what I always say. Listen, winning requires you to be different, and difference scares people. Absolutely. It scares people. So after each championship,
Every single athlete, high performance athletes I've worked with, even in business, would come up to me and say, what's next? Because I need to feel this again. I need to feel this. The obsession. Yes. I need to feel this again. So they know they have to come back. Something about them has to be better. They have to continue to evolve and change.
Every single athlete, high performance athletes I've worked with, even in business, would come up to me and say, what's next? Because I need to feel this again. I need to feel this. The obsession. Yes. I need to feel this again. So they know they have to come back. Something about them has to be better. They have to continue to evolve and change.