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We were getting my son ready for bed and she called me really hysterical. I couldn't really understand what she was saying. So I kind of told her, I was like, I need you to calm down and kind of walk me through what you're saying. And she just said that my grandmother had been raped at her house and that she was going to take her to the hospital.
We were getting my son ready for bed and she called me really hysterical. I couldn't really understand what she was saying. So I kind of told her, I was like, I need you to calm down and kind of walk me through what you're saying. And she just said that my grandmother had been raped at her house and that she was going to take her to the hospital.
The very next day, so November 10th, I did see my grandma. I came out to my aunt's salon where my aunt and my mom and the detective were there. And I got to see my grandma for the first time since her attack. She looked beautiful. She put on makeup. She was definitely more put together than all of us combined. But I did see bruising on her arms.
The very next day, so November 10th, I did see my grandma. I came out to my aunt's salon where my aunt and my mom and the detective were there. And I got to see my grandma for the first time since her attack. She looked beautiful. She put on makeup. She was definitely more put together than all of us combined. But I did see bruising on her arms.
Even though she was collected, she was very in shock still. She was definitely trying to distract herself from her reality is what I could tell.
Even though she was collected, she was very in shock still. She was definitely trying to distract herself from her reality is what I could tell.
At that point, my grandma had told me her kind of side of things. She did leave out details of the rape, and she did not tell me about the sodomy. And I think that just, she's a very private person and very dignified, and she didn't want people to know that, or she was embarrassed by that for whatever reason. None of this was her fault, but...
At that point, my grandma had told me her kind of side of things. She did leave out details of the rape, and she did not tell me about the sodomy. And I think that just, she's a very private person and very dignified, and she didn't want people to know that, or she was embarrassed by that for whatever reason. None of this was her fault, but...
Just in the time, like she was 77, she was born and raised in a time where you just don't talk about that kind of stuff.
Just in the time, like she was 77, she was born and raised in a time where you just don't talk about that kind of stuff.
I'm sorry. She was in extreme pain.
I'm sorry. She was in extreme pain.
She stayed somewhere else for a period of time.
She stayed somewhere else for a period of time.
My whole family was just shook up. My uncles came to town. One lives in Springfield, Illinois, and one lives in Colorado. They came to town with their wives and just to kind of all be together and just make sure she was doing okay.
My whole family was just shook up. My uncles came to town. One lives in Springfield, Illinois, and one lives in Colorado. They came to town with their wives and just to kind of all be together and just make sure she was doing okay.
She had my brothers coming and staying with her at hotels and I don't think she was dealing with it fully, but she was trying to push through because we were going into Thanksgiving and then she was really excited about Christmas coming up and was getting everything prepared for Christmas.
She had my brothers coming and staying with her at hotels and I don't think she was dealing with it fully, but she was trying to push through because we were going into Thanksgiving and then she was really excited about Christmas coming up and was getting everything prepared for Christmas.
And she just always did. She never let anything affect her, at least outwardly. And she was so protective of us. She never wanted us to worry about her. She never wanted us to feel any pain about it. Even though that was inevitable, she just wanted us to try to move on from it. She wanted to move on from it.
And she just always did. She never let anything affect her, at least outwardly. And she was so protective of us. She never wanted us to worry about her. She never wanted us to feel any pain about it. Even though that was inevitable, she just wanted us to try to move on from it. She wanted to move on from it.