TJ Power
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And we get them to always sit down on the bench. We then get them to have a grateful thought and ask themselves why they actually feel grateful for that thing. Frequency of gratitude is the most important factor. just once a week thinking, oh, yeah, I'm kind of grateful I've got my house. It's great for your mind. But to really get the oxytocin production, we need it to be frequently occurring.
And we get them to always sit down on the bench. We then get them to have a grateful thought and ask themselves why they actually feel grateful for that thing. Frequency of gratitude is the most important factor. just once a week thinking, oh, yeah, I'm kind of grateful I've got my house. It's great for your mind. But to really get the oxytocin production, we need it to be frequently occurring.
And that's going to reduce our mind constantly focusing on others and move yourself into that state of, okay, I do actually have quite a lot in my life as well.
And that's going to reduce our mind constantly focusing on others and move yourself into that state of, okay, I do actually have quite a lot in my life as well.
it's very few because it's not like something like super sexy oh my god cold showers boost your dopamine by this percentage it's not got that same thing but in terms of the effectiveness on your experience in your life and your mental health it's so right at the core of exactly what our brain needs we help a lot of people with
it's very few because it's not like something like super sexy oh my god cold showers boost your dopamine by this percentage it's not got that same thing but in terms of the effectiveness on your experience in your life and your mental health it's so right at the core of exactly what our brain needs we help a lot of people with
Overthinking is just like a massive challenge in our world where our brain rapidly spirals into negative scenarios. You hear a piece of news about your family or your work or your health, and our brain goes so quickly into worst case scenario. It's very clear that in an overthinking state, gratitude is such a powerful practice to start settling the mind back down.
Overthinking is just like a massive challenge in our world where our brain rapidly spirals into negative scenarios. You hear a piece of news about your family or your work or your health, and our brain goes so quickly into worst case scenario. It's very clear that in an overthinking state, gratitude is such a powerful practice to start settling the mind back down.
Because in the overthinking, it's like fear, fear, what's not going right? What's not going right? Gratitude is this safety, safety. Okay, I have some things. I'm okay. I have some kind of stable foundation to build on. such a powerful antidote to so much of the pain we have now.
Because in the overthinking, it's like fear, fear, what's not going right? What's not going right? Gratitude is this safety, safety. Okay, I have some things. I'm okay. I have some kind of stable foundation to build on. such a powerful antidote to so much of the pain we have now.
Procrastination is... largely spent on the phone. People aren't often procrastinating while sitting doing nothing. Like if you were to sit on the sofa, I doubt that's often the state people in when they're procrastinating. I imagine they're more likely scrolling their phone. So I would see procrastination more as a dopaminergic challenge, whereas I would see the...
Procrastination is... largely spent on the phone. People aren't often procrastinating while sitting doing nothing. Like if you were to sit on the sofa, I doubt that's often the state people in when they're procrastinating. I imagine they're more likely scrolling their phone. So I would see procrastination more as a dopaminergic challenge, whereas I would see the...
overthinking more as a conversation that's happening in your mind, a little bit of oxytocin, and then also something that's happening with serotonin. Serotonin really interconnects with the state of our body and our nervous system.
overthinking more as a conversation that's happening in your mind, a little bit of oxytocin, and then also something that's happening with serotonin. Serotonin really interconnects with the state of our body and our nervous system.
And I think when we're in an overthinking type state, our body is actually getting into fear and over arousal, whereas procrastination would be kind of under arousal and lack of action. So I'd see it as quite different things, to be honest.
And I think when we're in an overthinking type state, our body is actually getting into fear and over arousal, whereas procrastination would be kind of under arousal and lack of action. So I'd see it as quite different things, to be honest.
I think it's natural for the mind to focus on what isn't going to plan. Like evolutionarily, it's very useful for it to consider, okay, the hut isn't built well enough or our food system isn't going to provide well enough. So our brain will naturally orient towards the negative.
I think it's natural for the mind to focus on what isn't going to plan. Like evolutionarily, it's very useful for it to consider, okay, the hut isn't built well enough or our food system isn't going to provide well enough. So our brain will naturally orient towards the negative.
I think in these states of paralysis, of I can't get myself to take action, I'm fearing and I'm in a state of all the worries of what I can't control, Ultimately, we need to separate ourselves from the modern world for a little period of time and spend some time with ourselves.
I think in these states of paralysis, of I can't get myself to take action, I'm fearing and I'm in a state of all the worries of what I can't control, Ultimately, we need to separate ourselves from the modern world for a little period of time and spend some time with ourselves.