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And what was his response?

And what was his response?

With her now-husband, they met at a widow's support group. He talked about his loneliness and being a single parent. They kind of just got each other. And she knew the question, what would you do if your ex showed up, would not be right for this nice guy who had just lost his wife. She wasn't going to ask that. The last person I talked to was Jessica. She teaches ESL classes in Atlanta.

With her now-husband, they met at a widow's support group. He talked about his loneliness and being a single parent. They kind of just got each other. And she knew the question, what would you do if your ex showed up, would not be right for this nice guy who had just lost his wife. She wasn't going to ask that. The last person I talked to was Jessica. She teaches ESL classes in Atlanta.

What's your go-to question?

What's your go-to question?

Ghosts. I bet you didn't see that one coming, did you? Do you believe in ghosts? Here's how Jessica says it works.

Ghosts. I bet you didn't see that one coming, did you? Do you believe in ghosts? Here's how Jessica says it works.

Was there ever a time that you asked the ghost question, the person answered differently than you, and you... went ahead and dated that person anyway? And how did that go?

Was there ever a time that you asked the ghost question, the person answered differently than you, and you... went ahead and dated that person anyway? And how did that go?

Really?

Really?

Her answer to the question is, I don't really believe in ghosts. But if there was evidence to the contrary, I could be convinced. I'm open to changing my mind.

Her answer to the question is, I don't really believe in ghosts. But if there was evidence to the contrary, I could be convinced. I'm open to changing my mind.

His rigidity was one of the big things that broke them up. Now she tells everyone she knows, if you're seeing someone new, ask them the ghost question. It could save you a lot of time. The thing about any trap, of course, is there are ways to sidestep it, disarm it. And then the person who laid the trap has to decide what to do. Emmanuel had to make such a decision.

His rigidity was one of the big things that broke them up. Now she tells everyone she knows, if you're seeing someone new, ask them the ghost question. It could save you a lot of time. The thing about any trap, of course, is there are ways to sidestep it, disarm it. And then the person who laid the trap has to decide what to do. Emmanuel had to make such a decision.

What did that tell you?

What did that tell you?

It is. All I think anyone wants is someone you don't feel like you have to set a trap for. Someone who you can look at them and say, you're everything I need and more. It's written all over your face. Baby, I can feel your halo. Pray it won't fade away. Sorry, I'm going to stop now.

It is. All I think anyone wants is someone you don't feel like you have to set a trap for. Someone who you can look at them and say, you're everything I need and more. It's written all over your face. Baby, I can feel your halo. Pray it won't fade away. Sorry, I'm going to stop now.