Todd Goodwin
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Can you give a little more color on what you're thinking in that regard? I have an idea, but I don't want to guess. Why would someone think their whole life would unravel?
Can you give a little more color on what you're thinking in that regard? I have an idea, but I don't want to guess. Why would someone think their whole life would unravel?
Okay, yeah. So... That comes to, there's two issues there. One is if someone identifies with their problem, like I'm a type A personality, I'm an overachiever, I'm a, you know, whatever it might be, then you gotta be careful with what you identify with.
Okay, yeah. So... That comes to, there's two issues there. One is if someone identifies with their problem, like I'm a type A personality, I'm an overachiever, I'm a, you know, whatever it might be, then you gotta be careful with what you identify with.
Okay, yeah. So... That comes to, there's two issues there. One is if someone identifies with their problem, like I'm a type A personality, I'm an overachiever, I'm a, you know, whatever it might be, then you gotta be careful with what you identify with.
If your identity is gonna dictate and drive and predict your behavior, so the person who says I'm an alcoholic and they have that, they've repeated that to themselves again and again,
If your identity is gonna dictate and drive and predict your behavior, so the person who says I'm an alcoholic and they have that, they've repeated that to themselves again and again,
If your identity is gonna dictate and drive and predict your behavior, so the person who says I'm an alcoholic and they have that, they've repeated that to themselves again and again,
is going to have a lot of trouble quitting drinking even through hypnosis if that's all that they're trying to do is change their behavior because their identity has you know made it so that well what do alcoholics do they drink alcohol a lot or they they you know that's that's it so what does a workaholic do they overwork they sacrifice their personal life or their health and they live that imbalance so if someone has identified with their problem we need to kind of disentangle that
is going to have a lot of trouble quitting drinking even through hypnosis if that's all that they're trying to do is change their behavior because their identity has you know made it so that well what do alcoholics do they drink alcohol a lot or they they you know that's that's it so what does a workaholic do they overwork they sacrifice their personal life or their health and they live that imbalance so if someone has identified with their problem we need to kind of disentangle that
is going to have a lot of trouble quitting drinking even through hypnosis if that's all that they're trying to do is change their behavior because their identity has you know made it so that well what do alcoholics do they drink alcohol a lot or they they you know that's that's it so what does a workaholic do they overwork they sacrifice their personal life or their health and they live that imbalance so if someone has identified with their problem we need to kind of disentangle that
and that's part of that's a subconscious thing that we can work on but the other is asking okay what is it you really want and are you it is the person who is very driven let's say are they doing it out of a compulsive need to satisfy
and that's part of that's a subconscious thing that we can work on but the other is asking okay what is it you really want and are you it is the person who is very driven let's say are they doing it out of a compulsive need to satisfy
and that's part of that's a subconscious thing that we can work on but the other is asking okay what is it you really want and are you it is the person who is very driven let's say are they doing it out of a compulsive need to satisfy
low self-worth, are they doing it to prove to their parents, dead or alive, that they can do it, or to prove to themselves, or to prove to their community, or whoever? And are they doing it from a place of weakness and insecurity, or are they doing it because they're truly inspired and fulfilled by that work, and that's why they have so much energy, they love doing it?
low self-worth, are they doing it to prove to their parents, dead or alive, that they can do it, or to prove to themselves, or to prove to their community, or whoever? And are they doing it from a place of weakness and insecurity, or are they doing it because they're truly inspired and fulfilled by that work, and that's why they have so much energy, they love doing it?
low self-worth, are they doing it to prove to their parents, dead or alive, that they can do it, or to prove to themselves, or to prove to their community, or whoever? And are they doing it from a place of weakness and insecurity, or are they doing it because they're truly inspired and fulfilled by that work, and that's why they have so much energy, they love doing it?
If it's the latter, then it's not going to change at all. They'll just have less stress and more success, most likely. But if they're overworking and they're doing all those things as a way of making up for poor self-worth or self-esteem or something to that effect, then we would be very clear with them. We'd say, now...
If it's the latter, then it's not going to change at all. They'll just have less stress and more success, most likely. But if they're overworking and they're doing all those things as a way of making up for poor self-worth or self-esteem or something to that effect, then we would be very clear with them. We'd say, now...
If it's the latter, then it's not going to change at all. They'll just have less stress and more success, most likely. But if they're overworking and they're doing all those things as a way of making up for poor self-worth or self-esteem or something to that effect, then we would be very clear with them. We'd say, now...