Tom Campbell

It's my job to focus on my energy state.

It's my job to focus on my vibration, my energy, and knowing that I'm following that because it actually feels good, not just because it's going to get me somewhere else.

And I think where a lot of people get caught up

is they do it because how long do I have to do the visualizations for?

And how long do I have to do this passionate thing for until I get there?

Like a means to an end.

It's a means to an end.

And anytime things are a means to an end, that's where attachment is.

And attachment is what creates resistance.

Attachment to, I want to attract the partner like this.

This is how it's going to happen.

I'm going to go to a coffee shop.

I'm going to see them at the coffee shop and they're going to say this.

And then we're going to, we're going to have this beautiful connection.

It's going to work out.

Meanwhile, you're on the way to the coffee shop and someone asks you for directions and you're like,

Like, you're not the person, you know what I mean?

Like, I'm just focused on getting to the coffee shop for that experience.

And it's like people end up blocking them from experiencing more magic in their life because they're trying to control it all, trying to, in a way, regulate their nervous system through the manifestations of what they create.

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