Tom Hruby
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And you, I knew six months later that that was his reason for it.
And you, I knew six months later that that was his reason for it.
Well, they just, it was weird. I mean, I was fully trying to rehab myself. I had other people coming out to visit. That's not like the, you know, I had young children at the time, which were their grandkids. Um, And I, he eventually, my mom actually called me and put him on the phone because my interactions with them had started to get a little bit more terse, like one word answers on the phone.
Well, they just, it was weird. I mean, I was fully trying to rehab myself. I had other people coming out to visit. That's not like the, you know, I had young children at the time, which were their grandkids. Um, And I, he eventually, my mom actually called me and put him on the phone because my interactions with them had started to get a little bit more terse, like one word answers on the phone.
Well, they just, it was weird. I mean, I was fully trying to rehab myself. I had other people coming out to visit. That's not like the, you know, I had young children at the time, which were their grandkids. Um, And I, he eventually, my mom actually called me and put him on the phone because my interactions with them had started to get a little bit more terse, like one word answers on the phone.
I just, I wasn't reaching out to them. I was fucking pissed. Right. And I'm not trying to justify my behavior. I'm just explaining where I was. And she just asked me straight out. And I, it just, it caught me in a moment where I was like, I'll fucking tell you why you want to fucking know why I'm pissed. And here it is. And I just kind of, I kind of blew up on him a little bit.
I just, I wasn't reaching out to them. I was fucking pissed. Right. And I'm not trying to justify my behavior. I'm just explaining where I was. And she just asked me straight out. And I, it just, it caught me in a moment where I was like, I'll fucking tell you why you want to fucking know why I'm pissed. And here it is. And I just kind of, I kind of blew up on him a little bit.
I just, I wasn't reaching out to them. I was fucking pissed. Right. And I'm not trying to justify my behavior. I'm just explaining where I was. And she just asked me straight out. And I, it just, it caught me in a moment where I was like, I'll fucking tell you why you want to fucking know why I'm pissed. And here it is. And I just kind of, I kind of blew up on him a little bit.
So does he live with you? Fuck no. Okay. I'd blow my brains out if he lived with me. He lives with his wife. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Like a mile and a half from where we live. Absolutely out of his fucking mind. Michael can attest. That's wonderful. He watches their dogs sometimes. It's wonderful from a distance. Yeah.
So does he live with you? Fuck no. Okay. I'd blow my brains out if he lived with me. He lives with his wife. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Like a mile and a half from where we live. Absolutely out of his fucking mind. Michael can attest. That's wonderful. He watches their dogs sometimes. It's wonderful from a distance. Yeah.
So does he live with you? Fuck no. Okay. I'd blow my brains out if he lived with me. He lives with his wife. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Like a mile and a half from where we live. Absolutely out of his fucking mind. Michael can attest. That's wonderful. He watches their dogs sometimes. It's wonderful from a distance. Yeah.
Are you a perfect parent? No. Do you mean to fuck up when you do?
Are you a perfect parent? No. Do you mean to fuck up when you do?
Are you a perfect parent? No. Do you mean to fuck up when you do?
probably don't right what's that you're not trying to fuck up like you don't mean to fuck up when you do not at all i think a big first step is to when you're younger you look at your parents and they're all you know they're literally your model of perfection and you have to realize at some point in time that they're just people people are a fucking mess so i would say if you can get to a place where you realize he's probably not intentionally doing that that's a good start
probably don't right what's that you're not trying to fuck up like you don't mean to fuck up when you do not at all i think a big first step is to when you're younger you look at your parents and they're all you know they're literally your model of perfection and you have to realize at some point in time that they're just people people are a fucking mess so i would say if you can get to a place where you realize he's probably not intentionally doing that that's a good start
probably don't right what's that you're not trying to fuck up like you don't mean to fuck up when you do not at all i think a big first step is to when you're younger you look at your parents and they're all you know they're literally your model of perfection and you have to realize at some point in time that they're just people people are a fucking mess so i would say if you can get to a place where you realize he's probably not intentionally doing that that's a good start
if he were to pass today and you feel like you would have regrets where things left unsaid, I would say, do something about that. But chemical and substance abuse is a different fucking animal. I would put that back into his court. And I would say, if you want to have a relationship with me and your grandkids, That's what I want to, but it comes with this criteria and you have to hold that line.
if he were to pass today and you feel like you would have regrets where things left unsaid, I would say, do something about that. But chemical and substance abuse is a different fucking animal. I would put that back into his court. And I would say, if you want to have a relationship with me and your grandkids, That's what I want to, but it comes with this criteria and you have to hold that line.
if he were to pass today and you feel like you would have regrets where things left unsaid, I would say, do something about that. But chemical and substance abuse is a different fucking animal. I would put that back into his court. And I would say, if you want to have a relationship with me and your grandkids, That's what I want to, but it comes with this criteria and you have to hold that line.