Tom Rosenthal

Of course.

If I asked you what you think was the toughest day of your life, can you think of what it might have been?

Ooh.

That's suitably heavy, isn't it?

That is very heavy.

You literally asked for it.

But the thing is, you clearly weren't a horrible person.

The thing about all behaviors, they all come from somewhere.

No one wakes up and wants to be a horrible person, right?

So just going off what you've told me already, there are probably emotions and communication and feelings you didn't know how to express.

And so they came out in other ways.

That's just what happens.

If you don't know where to channel,

your anger and your feeling, it will come up in the, in the nearest possible person.

The closest person will be a punch bag.

Yeah, true.

You know, because it's like, that's the safest bet is to, is to hit your mum.

It's the safest bet, you know?

And also you didn't, you know, you hit her as a, as a small child, didn't you?

So it's like, it's a horrible thing to have happened, but it's not,