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Tom Schwartz

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

Okay, L is for lesbian, G is for gay, B is for bisexual, T is for transgender, I can't say that, Q is for queer, questioning, I is for intersex, A is for asexual, and plus represents all the other gender and sexual identities not explicitly included in the acronym. acknowledging the ever-evolving nature of these terms and the diversity within the community. This is a beautiful month, you guys.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

In my experience, there's a lot of people who support the community. They approve of gay marriage. They hang out with gay people. They have gay friends. They're definitely not homophobic, but at least once or twice, maybe even in the privacy of their own brains, they've wondered... Why do we need gay pride in this day and age?

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

In my experience, there's a lot of people who support the community. They approve of gay marriage. They hang out with gay people. They have gay friends. They're definitely not homophobic, but at least once or twice, maybe even in the privacy of their own brains, they've wondered... Why do we need gay pride in this day and age?

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

Is gay pride still really necessary in 2025 and not in like a snarky or even mildly homophobic way? Not in like a spiteful, sneering way. At least I don't hope so. But they're just like, why? Why do we still need it? Well, we're going to get into that, and we're also going to remind ourselves why safe spaces and gay bars matter too.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

Is gay pride still really necessary in 2025 and not in like a snarky or even mildly homophobic way? Not in like a spiteful, sneering way. At least I don't hope so. But they're just like, why? Why do we still need it? Well, we're going to get into that, and we're also going to remind ourselves why safe spaces and gay bars matter too.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

And obviously, this can be implied to people who are persecuted and marginalized from all walks of life for the color of their skin, sexuality, religion, etc. Why? That's why they take pride in celebrating their progress, okay? That's why they have national holidays. I mean, let's be honest, the president, Donald Trump, he says he loves his gays. I love my gays.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

And obviously, this can be implied to people who are persecuted and marginalized from all walks of life for the color of their skin, sexuality, religion, etc. Why? That's why they take pride in celebrating their progress, okay? That's why they have national holidays. I mean, let's be honest, the president, Donald Trump, he says he loves his gays. I love my gays.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

But some of the recent legislation would beg to differ. It's scary out there right now. You know, spending so much time in cities like Los Angeles, New York, San Francisco, it's easy to forget the history, the trials and tribulations members of the gay community have had to overcome and endure. Have you guys seen Milk? Harvey Milk, he's an icon. He's a legend. Shit, the Stonewall Riots...

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

But some of the recent legislation would beg to differ. It's scary out there right now. You know, spending so much time in cities like Los Angeles, New York, San Francisco, it's easy to forget the history, the trials and tribulations members of the gay community have had to overcome and endure. Have you guys seen Milk? Harvey Milk, he's an icon. He's a legend. Shit, the Stonewall Riots...

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

When were they back in the 70s? Hold on a sec. Stonewall riots back in 1969? That's like only 50 years ago. Okay, we're still making progress here. Okay, I'm on Wikipedia.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

When were they back in the 70s? Hold on a sec. Stonewall riots back in 1969? That's like only 50 years ago. Okay, we're still making progress here. Okay, I'm on Wikipedia.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

Although the demonstrations were not the first time American LGBTQ people fought back against government-sponsored persecution of sexual minorities, the Stonewall riots marked a new beginning for the gay rights movement in the United States and around the world. Sparked a revolution. Also, gay bars. Why do they matter? Why are they so important? Let's zoom into West Hollywood in particular.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

Although the demonstrations were not the first time American LGBTQ people fought back against government-sponsored persecution of sexual minorities, the Stonewall riots marked a new beginning for the gay rights movement in the United States and around the world. Sparked a revolution. Also, gay bars. Why do they matter? Why are they so important? Let's zoom into West Hollywood in particular.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

First of all, I love West Hollywood. That's where I first found the Pink Pony Club. In West Hollywood, it didn't start out as gay. I mean, not to single them out, I remember reading about when I first got there, certain bars like the lovely and very progressive and gay-friendly... Barney's Beanery used to have a sign behind the bar that said no F-words.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

First of all, I love West Hollywood. That's where I first found the Pink Pony Club. In West Hollywood, it didn't start out as gay. I mean, not to single them out, I remember reading about when I first got there, certain bars like the lovely and very progressive and gay-friendly... Barney's Beanery used to have a sign behind the bar that said no F-words.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

I can't say that and I won't say that, but obviously it's come a long way, just like the community as a whole in West Hollywood. So let's go back to the 60s and the 70s. Okay, LGBTQ plus Angelenos were being pushed out of their neighborhoods by police harassment, zoning crackdowns.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

I can't say that and I won't say that, but obviously it's come a long way, just like the community as a whole in West Hollywood. So let's go back to the 60s and the 70s. Okay, LGBTQ plus Angelenos were being pushed out of their neighborhoods by police harassment, zoning crackdowns.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

And they began migrating to this little unincorporated pocket of Los Angeles County where law enforcement was a little more chill and landlords a little more lenient. And pretty soon, gay bars became the beating heart, the pulse of this growing community. One of the first ones I think that opened was Gold Coast back in 1981. It became the first openly gay watering hole in West Hollywood.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

And they began migrating to this little unincorporated pocket of Los Angeles County where law enforcement was a little more chill and landlords a little more lenient. And pretty soon, gay bars became the beating heart, the pulse of this growing community. One of the first ones I think that opened was Gold Coast back in 1981. It became the first openly gay watering hole in West Hollywood.

Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Celebrating Pride with The Valley's Zack Wickham

They welcome leather daddies, silver foxes, pretty much anyone looking for a cold beer and a wink, a safe place. Then, Studio One. I think this was before my time, too. Part nightclub, part pageant, part revolution. Yeah, I like that. Where disco reigned and unity pulsed beneath the mirrored ball. It sounds groovy. And, of course, the Abbey, which I know well and love.