Tommy Metz III

Well, definitely the part about leaving a message...

having too long in between talking or checking in and then feeling the pressure of that and then feeling the pressure of, Oh, well then I don't have, cause we haven't talked in forever.

So it's going to be like a two hour long conversation.

I just don't have time to have that.

That's why I've been, can I butt in real quick with one thing, but I have been really trying over the last couple of years to normalize just shorter check-ins.

And I started saying things, even sometimes just saying it.

Like, hey, I was a little bit nervous because we haven't talked in forever.

And I do want to catch up.

But let's not feel the pressure.

to catch up for forever.

Like do it on a dog walk, do it on your driving across town, that kind of a thing.

Like have sometimes if you have a finite, I'm going to a place half an hour away, then you just sort of, you can take a little bit of the pressure off.

And I've been trying to normalize that because I was wrongly thinking as I do that I was the only one feeling that way.

And of course, remember, you're absolutely not.

Right.

The treaty of this podcast is you are not alone, even though we're far away from what's that smell.

Okay, go ahead.

Part the fourth.

Oh, like don't procrastinate.

Right.