Trevor Evarts

Just zero empathy. It's like, she's only looking at the tattoo as how it relates to her. Like it's just completely selfish. She's only seeing the tattoo as this is, you know, a past love of his and that threatens me rather than seeing like the emotional meaning that it has to him.

Just zero empathy. It's like, she's only looking at the tattoo as how it relates to her. Like it's just completely selfish. She's only seeing the tattoo as this is, you know, a past love of his and that threatens me rather than seeing like the emotional meaning that it has to him.

That's a crime.

That's a crime.

Yeah. Just a cop showing up at the door with a red flag.

Yeah. Just a cop showing up at the door with a red flag.

It's so tough because it's obvious that she went through something traumatic and she's very scared of something like that happening again, but it's just not the healthy way to approach it. And it seems like he's being pretty reasonable and understanding and trying to communicate his feelings, but yeah, it's so tough.

It's so tough because it's obvious that she went through something traumatic and she's very scared of something like that happening again, but it's just not the healthy way to approach it. And it seems like he's being pretty reasonable and understanding and trying to communicate his feelings, but yeah, it's so tough.

I mean, he's completely in the right to be like, no, I don't want to give out my social security number.

I mean, he's completely in the right to be like, no, I don't want to give out my social security number.

If you're not in a place where you can trust someone without them giving you your social security number to do a background check, then you should not be in a relationship and be going to therapy.

If you're not in a place where you can trust someone without them giving you your social security number to do a background check, then you should not be in a relationship and be going to therapy.

Yeah, or just being like, hey, I went through a lot in my last relationship, so it might be a little bit harder for me to open up and trust. It might take me a little bit longer to trust you. And I think communicating that is healthy, but going in and being like, hey, we're approaching a certain point, so I need your social security number. It's a long step to take.

Yeah, or just being like, hey, I went through a lot in my last relationship, so it might be a little bit harder for me to open up and trust. It might take me a little bit longer to trust you. And I think communicating that is healthy, but going in and being like, hey, we're approaching a certain point, so I need your social security number. It's a long step to take.

Yeah, I was gonna say, I don't know how that works, but I feel like you could just look up someone's name and see if they have a criminal record.

Yeah, I was gonna say, I don't know how that works, but I feel like you could just look up someone's name and see if they have a criminal record.

Also, if he was a government employee, would he not have been background checked for that?

Also, if he was a government employee, would he not have been background checked for that?

Wow, I mean, he did everything. He's like, look, I'm not gonna get my social security out, but I'll literally pay for a background check from a verified organization that does these things. And unfortunately, there was no crime.

Wow, I mean, he did everything. He's like, look, I'm not gonna get my social security out, but I'll literally pay for a background check from a verified organization that does these things. And unfortunately, there was no crime.