Trevor Noah

This helps the child to feel loved and to feel safe and secure.

Healthy attachment is the key to avoiding all personality disorders.

Unhealthy families are authoritarian families.

They want the kids to be obedient.

They often do corporal punishment, which is illegal in most civilized countries except here.

But beating children is traumatic to the brain.

It does not encourage children to think differently and act differently.

etc.

And often kids who are gay, if they're in a homophobic church or something, are kicked out and then they're picked up by pimps or traffickers or somebody else on the street and more trauma happens.

So when you say, Steve, some families are authoritarian cults, I'm like, yes.

Yeah, no, but that's what I mean by everything is a... Do you get what I'm saying?

So I'm saying... I wasn't beaten as a child.

I was... Honestly, I had a very unusual... That's why you went off on a weekend doing nonsense things, Steve.

Yeah, cult.

You'll see your cult.

But when you grow up with an authoritarian, you're going to be attracted to an authoritarian cult.

Because it's familiar.

That's the thing.

A reality TV.

Yeah.