Tyson

as the dictionary definition, compliant and obedient.

That's what submissive means.

Okay, what's your definition?

It's not my definition.

It is the English Oxford Dictionary definition of submissive.

Is that what you want?

I think to an extent I would like to be the leader of the house, yeah.

What I'm asking, do you want someone obedient?

Well, would you say that's controlling, being the leader of the house?

Would you say that that's... I would say if you want someone who is obedient, yes, it's controlling, and you want a dog.

OK, well, then, there you go.

Maybe that's what I want.

Wow.

You want a dog.

This is exactly the sort of controlling behaviour that we're trying to combat when we talk about getting rid of coercive control.

The fact that this is being mainstreamed on a really popular show is really disappointing.

I really do think the makers of this show need to think twice before platforming this sort of misogyny.

So when you're saying here to Steph, in front of Steph, I want a submissive woman, you're saying I want to be with someone who will lie down, give up their rights, not try to have their needs met, who will make the relationship all about you and your needs.

I'm not saying that.

Well, you are.