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It sounds great. It sounds wonderful. Everything that we've been learning today and listening to the conversation has been extremely helpful. But I also want to say that as men, we don't often get the information so that we understand what's happening with our wives and our partners.
It sounds great. It sounds wonderful. Everything that we've been learning today and listening to the conversation has been extremely helpful. But I also want to say that as men, we don't often get the information so that we understand what's happening with our wives and our partners.
It sounds great. It sounds wonderful. Everything that we've been learning today and listening to the conversation has been extremely helpful. But I also want to say that as men, we don't often get the information so that we understand what's happening with our wives and our partners.
You know, her lack of. of interest I thought was my fault. I thought I wasn't doing enough. I thought I wasn't being there or I thought she didn't love me anymore. And truth be told, Vicky even thought it was me. Like, you're not doing enough. Maybe you need to do this. Maybe you need to do more. She once told me that, you know, the room that we were, our bedroom was painted a chocolate brown.
You know, her lack of. of interest I thought was my fault. I thought I wasn't doing enough. I thought I wasn't being there or I thought she didn't love me anymore. And truth be told, Vicky even thought it was me. Like, you're not doing enough. Maybe you need to do this. Maybe you need to do more. She once told me that, you know, the room that we were, our bedroom was painted a chocolate brown.
You know, her lack of. of interest I thought was my fault. I thought I wasn't doing enough. I thought I wasn't being there or I thought she didn't love me anymore. And truth be told, Vicky even thought it was me. Like, you're not doing enough. Maybe you need to do this. Maybe you need to do more. She once told me that, you know, the room that we were, our bedroom was painted a chocolate brown.
And she said, oh, the room's too dark. It's too gloomy. And she went away for a weekend and came back and the room was painted. So I took care of things. I was like, oh, no, you know, if that's the problem, then let me go ahead and solve the problem. Once we began to realize what was happening and that this had nothing to do with me or with her, you know, I wasn't the problem.
And she said, oh, the room's too dark. It's too gloomy. And she went away for a weekend and came back and the room was painted. So I took care of things. I was like, oh, no, you know, if that's the problem, then let me go ahead and solve the problem. Once we began to realize what was happening and that this had nothing to do with me or with her, you know, I wasn't the problem.
And she said, oh, the room's too dark. It's too gloomy. And she went away for a weekend and came back and the room was painted. So I took care of things. I was like, oh, no, you know, if that's the problem, then let me go ahead and solve the problem. Once we began to realize what was happening and that this had nothing to do with me or with her, you know, I wasn't the problem.
Nikki wasn't the problem. The problem was the problem. And we began to understand. I began to understand what was happening with her body. Then I began to understand and be a little bit more sympathetic to how she was feeling, what we were going through.
Nikki wasn't the problem. The problem was the problem. And we began to understand. I began to understand what was happening with her body. Then I began to understand and be a little bit more sympathetic to how she was feeling, what we were going through.
Nikki wasn't the problem. The problem was the problem. And we began to understand. I began to understand what was happening with her body. Then I began to understand and be a little bit more sympathetic to how she was feeling, what we were going through.
Absolutely. I shifted my own expectations because there was a part of me that thought she didn't love me. But no, everything else that she does shows me that she loves me. So when I shifted my expectations, actually, she began to meet me in the middle. And it became a better experience for both of us. Right, because communication is key.
Absolutely. I shifted my own expectations because there was a part of me that thought she didn't love me. But no, everything else that she does shows me that she loves me. So when I shifted my expectations, actually, she began to meet me in the middle. And it became a better experience for both of us. Right, because communication is key.
Absolutely. I shifted my own expectations because there was a part of me that thought she didn't love me. But no, everything else that she does shows me that she loves me. So when I shifted my expectations, actually, she began to meet me in the middle. And it became a better experience for both of us. Right, because communication is key.
My question for Dr. Maloney is, you know, grown talk for women, recommended reading for men, or should we have a grown talk about women for men book coming out? And what more can we do to begin to understand? Let me just include, I have a husband's group that I meet with. And we met last night and I brought this whole topic of menopause. What did they say? I'm curious.
My question for Dr. Maloney is, you know, grown talk for women, recommended reading for men, or should we have a grown talk about women for men book coming out? And what more can we do to begin to understand? Let me just include, I have a husband's group that I meet with. And we met last night and I brought this whole topic of menopause. What did they say? I'm curious.
My question for Dr. Maloney is, you know, grown talk for women, recommended reading for men, or should we have a grown talk about women for men book coming out? And what more can we do to begin to understand? Let me just include, I have a husband's group that I meet with. And we met last night and I brought this whole topic of menopause. What did they say? I'm curious.
I was shocked to see that everybody was very willing to talk about it because no one ever talks about it. Oh, that's great. Men in their 60s, three men in their 50s. And the young man in his 30s was taking feverish notes because he was like, oh, my goodness, what's going on? What do I have to look forward to? What should I be doing? And it was a great conversation.
I was shocked to see that everybody was very willing to talk about it because no one ever talks about it. Oh, that's great. Men in their 60s, three men in their 50s. And the young man in his 30s was taking feverish notes because he was like, oh, my goodness, what's going on? What do I have to look forward to? What should I be doing? And it was a great conversation.