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Back in August, I took out the trash. So you have to. Exactly. So it'll never end.

Back in August, I took out the trash. So you have to. Exactly. So it'll never end.

Back in August, I took out the trash. So you have to. Exactly. So it'll never end.

Well, we joke on the show about playing house. And when people move in together, even though all the data suggests otherwise, there's this idea that we're going to move in together and we're going to kind of like practice.

Well, we joke on the show about playing house. And when people move in together, even though all the data suggests otherwise, there's this idea that we're going to move in together and we're going to kind of like practice.

Well, we joke on the show about playing house. And when people move in together, even though all the data suggests otherwise, there's this idea that we're going to move in together and we're going to kind of like practice.

Well, not even that. We're going to practice marriage and see if we're compatible. And what anyone who's been married more than five seconds will tell you is every marriage goes through seasons where we would not be together except we're married. And we have to figure this out. We're anchored to the same boat and we're going to figure this thing out.

Well, not even that. We're going to practice marriage and see if we're compatible. And what anyone who's been married more than five seconds will tell you is every marriage goes through seasons where we would not be together except we're married. And we have to figure this out. We're anchored to the same boat and we're going to figure this thing out.

Well, not even that. We're going to practice marriage and see if we're compatible. And what anyone who's been married more than five seconds will tell you is every marriage goes through seasons where we would not be together except we're married. And we have to figure this out. We're anchored to the same boat and we're going to figure this thing out.

And so this idea that we're practicing for something beyond just dating, it doesn't bear out in the data, right? You'd think that people who live together, their marriages are better. It's not, right? They end up not being. So when we say play house, Really seriously, that's what's happening. We're pretending we have a long term relationship or we're practicing for something.

And so this idea that we're practicing for something beyond just dating, it doesn't bear out in the data, right? You'd think that people who live together, their marriages are better. It's not, right? They end up not being. So when we say play house, Really seriously, that's what's happening. We're pretending we have a long term relationship or we're practicing for something.

And so this idea that we're practicing for something beyond just dating, it doesn't bear out in the data, right? You'd think that people who live together, their marriages are better. It's not, right? They end up not being. So when we say play house, Really seriously, that's what's happening. We're pretending we have a long term relationship or we're practicing for something.

But it doesn't work that way. And so what I would say is to back all the way out. And it sounds like I'm just reading between the lines here. And I'm speculating a lot. Obviously, one of you. is probably moving in because they like the benefits, the roommate with benefits, the intimacy benefits, the split cost benefits, and one of you was practicing for marriage.

But it doesn't work that way. And so what I would say is to back all the way out. And it sounds like I'm just reading between the lines here. And I'm speculating a lot. Obviously, one of you. is probably moving in because they like the benefits, the roommate with benefits, the intimacy benefits, the split cost benefits, and one of you was practicing for marriage.

But it doesn't work that way. And so what I would say is to back all the way out. And it sounds like I'm just reading between the lines here. And I'm speculating a lot. Obviously, one of you. is probably moving in because they like the benefits, the roommate with benefits, the intimacy benefits, the split cost benefits, and one of you was practicing for marriage.

And so I think this is one of those, let's swipe an arm across the table, clear the deck, and say, where are we? Or as the kids say... DT, DTR define the relationship.

And so I think this is one of those, let's swipe an arm across the table, clear the deck, and say, where are we? Or as the kids say... DT, DTR define the relationship.

And so I think this is one of those, let's swipe an arm across the table, clear the deck, and say, where are we? Or as the kids say... DT, DTR define the relationship.

That's awesome. One of my students, one time I was like, yeah, we're having a DTR tonight. And I was like, I don't know what that means. So it was good. Yeah. It was a long time ago. They probably moved on to new things now, but I think it's still a good term, but you have to decide what are we doing? What are we doing?

That's awesome. One of my students, one time I was like, yeah, we're having a DTR tonight. And I was like, I don't know what that means. So it was good. Yeah. It was a long time ago. They probably moved on to new things now, but I think it's still a good term, but you have to decide what are we doing? What are we doing?