Unknown Caller

Yeah. Does this sound like a romantic relationship?

um we opened up the relationship like eight years ago to try to fix that yeah that that usually works whenever couples aren't working out together just like hooking up with a neighbor always works that's good that works great okay so so here's the deal here's a question like he's not on the phone to defend himself his mother and his parents are having challenges you're the only person on the call yeah how old are you again

um we opened up the relationship like eight years ago to try to fix that yeah that that usually works whenever couples aren't working out together just like hooking up with a neighbor always works that's good that works great okay so so here's the deal here's a question like he's not on the phone to defend himself his mother and his parents are having challenges you're the only person on the call yeah how old are you again

um we opened up the relationship like eight years ago to try to fix that yeah that that usually works whenever couples aren't working out together just like hooking up with a neighbor always works that's good that works great okay so so here's the deal here's a question like he's not on the phone to defend himself his mother and his parents are having challenges you're the only person on the call yeah how old are you again

43. 43. Let's just pretend you have 50 years left to go. You're not even halfway done yet. You cannot do one single thing about anything that's come before this phone call.

43. 43. Let's just pretend you have 50 years left to go. You're not even halfway done yet. You cannot do one single thing about anything that's come before this phone call.

43. 43. Let's just pretend you have 50 years left to go. You're not even halfway done yet. You cannot do one single thing about anything that's come before this phone call.

You're holding a pen and a blank piece of paper. You get to decide what story you write next. End of discussion. Doesn't matter about him. He has shown you his cards. I won't marry you. I won't participate in life with you. I won't do any sort of like I won't live in any sort of reality at all. And there's probably a million reasons why partridge in a pear tree.

You're holding a pen and a blank piece of paper. You get to decide what story you write next. End of discussion. Doesn't matter about him. He has shown you his cards. I won't marry you. I won't participate in life with you. I won't do any sort of like I won't live in any sort of reality at all. And there's probably a million reasons why partridge in a pear tree.

You're holding a pen and a blank piece of paper. You get to decide what story you write next. End of discussion. Doesn't matter about him. He has shown you his cards. I won't marry you. I won't participate in life with you. I won't do any sort of like I won't live in any sort of reality at all. And there's probably a million reasons why partridge in a pear tree.

We're not going to go through all that. The only thing that matters is you're holding a pen and a blank piece of paper. What do you write next? I mean, here's the deal. It's going to be hard to break up. It's going to be hard to, you're going to have the sunk cost fallacy. Like I've already given 20 years and I might as well just have another 50 miserable years.

We're not going to go through all that. The only thing that matters is you're holding a pen and a blank piece of paper. What do you write next? I mean, here's the deal. It's going to be hard to break up. It's going to be hard to, you're going to have the sunk cost fallacy. Like I've already given 20 years and I might as well just have another 50 miserable years.

We're not going to go through all that. The only thing that matters is you're holding a pen and a blank piece of paper. What do you write next? I mean, here's the deal. It's going to be hard to break up. It's going to be hard to, you're going to have the sunk cost fallacy. Like I've already given 20 years and I might as well just have another 50 miserable years.

So when I die, I've got 70 miserable. You can do that. And you can also stay in this thing. That's going to be hard. The only options you have is a hard choice. Choose your heart.

So when I die, I've got 70 miserable. You can do that. And you can also stay in this thing. That's going to be hard. The only options you have is a hard choice. Choose your heart.

So when I die, I've got 70 miserable. You can do that. And you can also stay in this thing. That's going to be hard. The only options you have is a hard choice. Choose your heart.

Hold on, hold on. I don't care about a year ago. I care about right now. A year ago is past.

Hold on, hold on. I don't care about a year ago. I care about right now. A year ago is past.

Hold on, hold on. I don't care about a year ago. I care about right now. A year ago is past.

He's a grown man who's made choices for 20 years. For 50 years. Yeah. Not 50. For about 40 years, he's made choices. Yeah.