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Hi, Dan. I'm responding to the caller from episode 949 who has an anxious attachment style. I would like to make a case for the value of people identifying as having an anxious attachment style. So I certainly do. I'm in my mid-40s and have been... working on it in therapy for the last 20 years.

Hi, Dan. I'm responding to the caller from episode 949 who has an anxious attachment style. I would like to make a case for the value of people identifying as having an anxious attachment style. So I certainly do. I'm in my mid-40s and have been... working on it in therapy for the last 20 years.

And I'm convinced that these kind of moments of fear and panic of thinking of my partner is this like evil twin version of them. I don't think that's ever going to go away for me. The emotions are just too powerful. What I have learned over the years is ways of self-regulating, of processing, of journaling, of grounding.

And I'm convinced that these kind of moments of fear and panic of thinking of my partner is this like evil twin version of them. I don't think that's ever going to go away for me. The emotions are just too powerful. What I have learned over the years is ways of self-regulating, of processing, of journaling, of grounding.

But I was able to do that because of identifying as having the anxious attachment style of recognizing, okay, I'm not crazy. I'm not a broken person of having all these emotions, but I need to process it in this particular way. I do think that it can be a good thing even in the first couple months of a relationship to discuss some of those needs with your partner.

But I was able to do that because of identifying as having the anxious attachment style of recognizing, okay, I'm not crazy. I'm not a broken person of having all these emotions, but I need to process it in this particular way. I do think that it can be a good thing even in the first couple months of a relationship to discuss some of those needs with your partner.

You know, if you're someone like me for whom, yeah, there's going to be some conversations over the course of our relationship where I'm calmly asking you to maybe meet some need that is not being met. If you're not up for that kind of thing, then yeah, it's not going to work. And you might as well talk to someone about that in the first couple of months if they're not up for it at all.

You know, if you're someone like me for whom, yeah, there's going to be some conversations over the course of our relationship where I'm calmly asking you to maybe meet some need that is not being met. If you're not up for that kind of thing, then yeah, it's not going to work. And you might as well talk to someone about that in the first couple of months if they're not up for it at all.

So yeah, anxious detachment, it's a thing.

So yeah, anxious detachment, it's a thing.

Hi, Dan. This is a comment for episode 949 for the guy who was wondering how he can print off his dirty pictures. The easiest solution would be to just buy your own little photo printer. My grandma bought one for me when I was like 14 years old just for fun so I could print off. all the little photography things that I had been working on and they're not expensive.

Hi, Dan. This is a comment for episode 949 for the guy who was wondering how he can print off his dirty pictures. The easiest solution would be to just buy your own little photo printer. My grandma bought one for me when I was like 14 years old just for fun so I could print off. all the little photography things that I had been working on and they're not expensive.

And then you can just print everything you want at home and you don't have to worry about anyone seeing it. And it's super easy.

And then you can just print everything you want at home and you don't have to worry about anyone seeing it. And it's super easy.

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary Or if you're looking for sexual harmony Well, there's nothing you can't ask On the Savage Lovecast

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary Or if you're looking for sexual harmony Well, there's nothing you can't ask On the Savage Lovecast

Hey, Dan, when you and Dr. Yanova signed off on Feast of the Ass, you didn't give us an appropriate call and response greeting like all the other good holidays have. Is it just happy Feast of the Ass and also with you? Do we lift up our peaches? Is it thank you for your service or vive la brioche? Tell us, Dan or other listeners.

Hey, Dan, when you and Dr. Yanova signed off on Feast of the Ass, you didn't give us an appropriate call and response greeting like all the other good holidays have. Is it just happy Feast of the Ass and also with you? Do we lift up our peaches? Is it thank you for your service or vive la brioche? Tell us, Dan or other listeners.

Dan, you have to look up the history of the Tunnel of Fudge cake. It's a Bundt cake, and it's basically the reason why Bundt cakes are still a thing. And it's called the Tunnel of Fudge. So it's obviously got to be the Bundt cake specifically for the Feast of the Arts. So please, please go read about the history of the Tunnel of Fudge cake from 1966.

Dan, you have to look up the history of the Tunnel of Fudge cake. It's a Bundt cake, and it's basically the reason why Bundt cakes are still a thing. And it's called the Tunnel of Fudge. So it's obviously got to be the Bundt cake specifically for the Feast of the Arts. So please, please go read about the history of the Tunnel of Fudge cake from 1966.